Child-sex suspect abused daughter
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Child-sex suspect abused daughter


Shirley man not on offender registry
By Diana Bowley
BDN Staff
Donald Denbow. Photo courtesy of Piscataquis County Sheriffs Office.

DOVER-FOXCROFT, Maine — A Florida woman who was sexually assaulted by her father from the ages of 5 to 13 said she was alarmed her father allegedly had victimized more young girls in Maine.

Bonita Page, 42, said that her biological father, Donald Denbow, 67, of Shirley, who was arrested earlier this week and charged with gross sexual assault involving two underage girls, was convicted in 1982 of sexually abusing her as a child.

The earlier conviction for gross sexual misconduct, for which he was sentenced to five years in prison with all but 120 days suspended and three years probation, is recorded in Piscataquis County Superior Court in Dover-Foxcroft.

The fact that her father was never listed as a sexual predator on the Maine Sex Offender Registry bothers Page, who said she learned online about his arrest this week. “Why he wasn’t on some form of sexual predator list, I don’t know,” she said Friday.

Maine did not have a registry in 1982, but when the Legislature approved its formation in 2005, it made the registry’s contents retroactive to 1982, according to Laura Smith of the Maine Attorney General’s Office.

Karen Green of the Maine Sex Offender Registry said Friday the registry has been working to include those old cases online and Denbow’s file was one the registry had just received. She said the state archives has been sending the registry “packages and packages” of old cases. Each one is reviewed to see whether it’s a sex of-fense, whether the crime is a registerable offense, and whether it falls into the categories the department has to register a person. Denbow’s was in the most recent lot received, according to Green.

Denbow, who operates a barbershop in Greenville and who had operated a similar business in Dover-Foxcroft until late August, was charged after two 15-year-old girls disclosed alleged past sexual abuse by Denbow after they were hired to clean his Dover-Foxcroft barbershop after hours.

Dover-Foxcroft police, who were assisted in the investigation by the Piscataquis County Sheriff’s Department and Greenville police, arranged a sting operation earlier this week when Denbow asked to meet one of the girls. Denbow allegedly assumed he was meeting the girl in Dover-Foxcroft for sex Tuesday, but Dover-Foxcroft police were waiting for him instead.

After his arrest Tuesday, Denbow was taken to the Piscataquis County Jail, where he posted $500 cash bail and was released the same day.

One of the girls, who worked for Denbow from age 10 to age 12, told police that Denbow had sex with her “hundreds of times” in the barbershop and would pay her for it. The other girl accused Denbow of making sexual advances, including putting his hand inside her underwear while she worked for him between March and May 2008.

“My main concern is I want to try to help these girls because I know what they’re going through,” Page said. “I went through it myself.”

She added that she knows how difficult it is for a young girl to go through the court process and testify in front of strangers. “It’s a living hell,” she said.

Page said she would be willing to talk with the girls over the telephone or come to Maine for a day to speak with them in person.

Page said she went through therapy and has moved on with her life. “I’m OK now, which is wonderful, so I want to be able to help these girls get started on the right path,” she said.

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I am not going to get into it on here again with anyone. I am merely here to state my opinion about this SICK DISGUSTING PERVERT.

$500 FOR BAIL IS WAY TOO LOW. Hell even I a "normal law abiding citizen" who makes $8/hr can pay that in a week.

This pervert needs to be found out and taught a lesson. He cut my hair goddammit and needs to be punished

If convicted of his most recent alleged crimes, he'll get another slap on the wrist, thanks to Maine's namby-pamby liberal justice system.

beezlebubba... you have knowledge of the NAMBLA posts on CL? LOL

What a disgusting pig, I hope eventually he gets what he deserves, but they will give him time to do it again.

This sick @*&#^! deserves to rot in prison! I hope they give him a life sentence, but they won't. If he had some drugs on him though he would be going to prison for a long long time it just doesn't make sense! I can only hope that the same thing that happened to the last child molester in Warren happens to him!

If I see this mans picture one more time in the news I am going to HURL!

$500 ...are you serious? I empathize with the daughter. A victim typically assumes that they are the only one, and there is "no need" to tell anyone. So sad, but yet true. This sick man needs to be imprisoned for the rest of his natural life. There is not another solution for him not abusing another. I hope "family members" of other people are able to find the strength to step forward and tell their story. You will be believed...and may save one child the abuse that they do not deserve. These young girls are in my prayers tonight.

From the story: "The earlier conviction for gross sexual misconduct, for which he was sentenced to five years in prison with all but 120 days suspended and three years probation."

Only 4 months in the county jail for molesting his daughter????? WTH is wrong with judges that sentence people like this to so little time?? Like someone else said, if he'd sold four oxycontin pills, he'd have been spending 4 years in prison. It almost seems like the judges that mete out these sentences are thinking there's not much wrong with it, it was only a sex act, and that's what daughters are for. I am purely disgusted with the court system here.

this guy needs the bubba treatment.

i think he's going to get it.

I wonder how many victims there have been in the meantime.......

I'm not sticking up for this old letch. He should be punished.

But the question begs to be asked. Why didn't his 'victims' simply run away? Look at the guy. He's so old and decrepit I'm surprised he can even get it up much less force anyone. He didn't hold a gun to their heads. He dangled a few bucks in front of them and they sold it to him.

One of his 'victims' admits to having sex with him "hundreds of times" and even admits to accepting payment. For pete's sake God gave her two good legs why didn't she use them and run away if she felt abused?

Like I said. This dirty old man should be stopped but let's keep things in perspective. If a female was willing to take money for her services then we KNOW what she is.

hooligan: one girl was abused hundreds of times when she was age 10 to 12. He told these girls that if he went to jail they would go also. I say these girls were brave to come forward afterall they do have to go into a open court and testify in front of strangers. Simply run away??? LOL

Sick, Sick, Sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Michigal, you didn’t stumble onto something that is an unknown, it is factually known and documented throughout the Internet that some judges are corrupt. I truly believe that Kevin Stitham is one of these corrupt judges and I have felt his wrath for the past ten years. His son is a known drug dealer. Kevin himself allowed two of his life-long friends to drown while boating with them in his boat, drunk and not enough life-vests onboard accept for the one Kevin swam to shore with. I will feel his wrath for quite some time to come yet, but I sure as heck won’t cower from telling it like it is.

Good math skills there, a_realrain_willcome.

How many years has the sex offender registry been in effect? I can't remember, but they "just received" his file to review? Are you friggin kidding me? What the hell is wrong with the judicial system anyway, they make all these laws for the sake of using paper? The dirt bag was convicted of molesting his DAUGHTER, his own flesh and blood, and yet he escaped being registered. So he molested and hurt how many girls? I am sure there will be more that come forward and some that never will. It concerns me that their are so many people that have been convicted of molesting children in this state that they can't even have them all listed by now. This is just scary. Now this piece of crap is out on the streets for 500.00 bucks to boot. This is completely insane!!!!

For crying out loud! Didn't the parents notice anything about their daughters? And why would any parent let their daughter work after-hours at the age of 10?

Sorry but 15 year old girls know more about sex than I did back in 1972. Why would they take money from him and keep going back? Smarten up parents, get more involved in your childrens' lives. Don't get me wrong, I'm am not sticking up for this sick old #*&%@ but parents should be paying more attention to their kids! Hell, they still teach sex education in schools. What about "good touch/bad touch?"

I'd spend $500. to bail this guy out and you'd never se or hear from him again.

The people that hand out mild to no sentences to people like this should be held accountable if they commit these offenses again. 120 days in jail for molesting your baby daughter is a joke. To have scum like this running around with all the law enforcement we have in this state is absurd. The people that let this dirtbag off after his first offense should suffer the same consequences he should should get now.

This SOB needs to be severely beaten and thrown in a small, dark room for as long as he has life in him! What a disgusting looking old pervert he is! I Hate these people. They are of no use to anyone, and seem to be here for the sole purpose of torturing children. $500.00----What a joke! The justice system at it's finest!

This man is a threat, he has been doing this for over thirty years.He molested his own daughter and there was no remorse. $500.00 welcome to Maine !

hooligan, no, you r not sticking up for him, sure seems like you are to me. these scumbags know how to con and scheme there wicked sick ways on kids who probably don't have much supervision anyhow. if you wanna play the blame game, do it with the scumbag and her parents for allowing her to go there. you obviously blame the girl here, why didn't she run. these scumbags know how to pull the strings, i know, i was a victim. the courts should also share into this still going on, they let them off like they nothing really bad was done. hell, he just ruined a kids life, beleive me, her life will never be normal. so next time you say you r not sticking up for these scumbags, think twice.

This is why we still need the Sex Offender Registry, but some people want to get rid of it. 120 days in jail for the FIRST offense against his own daughter, is simply unacceptable!! This f@#$%r has been victimizing kids for YEARS now!! I can't even imagine how many little girls he has traumatized. WE NEED TO STRENGTHEN THE SEX OFFENDER LAWS IN THIS STATE!!

I'm not sticking up for him. I detest people like him. But here's how I see it. If you abuse me once shame on you. If you abuse me twice shame on me.

The only thing laws do are keep honest people honest. Criminals have no concern whatsoever for the law. To them it's just an obstacle.

It is up to each individual to "keep honest people honest". It's up to the individual to put a stop to crime. The police sure as heck can't/won't protect us all the time.

You can't tell me that any girl who allows herself to be abused more than once doesn't know what's going on. I just don't buy it. I happen to have daughters and believe you me if that dirtball so much as looked at them crossways he'd be looking at the ceiling wondering what just hit him. Then I'd go to jail for felony assault.

My girls always knew if anybody did anything they weren't comfortable with they were to tell their mother or me. The fact one or more of these girls took money seriously undermines their credibility.

hooligan, you just don't get it. these people r very scheming. they make you feel like if you run, or tell. bad things will happen to you, your family, that it is your fault. i guess you must be living in la-la land if you think like that.

Ya. The bail's all wrong. Who let him out, Judge Stitham? WTF is WRONG with whomever set bail. Time to throw them off the bench.

"hooligan, you just don't get it. these people r very scheming. they make you feel like if you run, or tell. bad things will happen to you, your family, that it is your fault. i guess you must be living in la-la land if you think like that."

I understand that children are very vulnerable to manipulation. But when a girl is abused hundreds of times and accepts payment? Man....I can't justify that. She's sharing the blame on that one...sorry.

Where are the posters who support same sex marriage? If they are so concerned with children where are they now? Kind of tells you something doesn't it...

firefly what's your point? This has nothing to do with same sex marriage.

How sad....how crass....re 11:28 AM Although I post on many threads, some of us do not get to all of them. Frankly, when I saw this one, it made me sick.......I have seen enough in the news about these perverts (usually older heterosexual men with young children.) It is disgusting and evil. I have commented on others like this; after a while, one just gets too disgusted.

$500 and he's back on the street, most likely without an ankle bracelet. Pitiful.

10 year old girls working for him? And the parents let this happen and didn't see any change in the one that was raped "hundreds of times"?

I'll bet his lawyer will argue that it's this pervs parent's fault because he was abused. Or they might try and say he was born that way.

Me and the boys would love to take him hunting near an Alabama swamp. Gaters love pervs.

3:22 AM, hooligan, 15 is under that age of consent.

11:28 AM, firefly, I posted the link to this article on the other thread yesterday. Note that this guy is heterosexual! So much for your "pervert" theory, hey.

Supporter of marriage equality.

Diana Bowley: Good reporting work. Thank you.

There is a swell of voices telling the law enforcerment community that the protection of children deserves more attention. Why isn't that message getting through? Sex Offenders' sentences are too light, too short, and of little consequence. They are back on the streets in a short time because the short sentences are frequently "suspended" and made even shorter. One must wonder why that is so. Would it be that the mostly-male enforcement and legal community underestimates the emotional, psychological, and physical damage done to victims? Time for a change! How many more damaged or dead children must there be?

Uh, Firefly, what point exactly are you trying to make? This story has nothing to do with Question 1, so why bring it up? Stirring the pot much?

Of course, the one thing that is somewhat related, as William pointed out, was that this particular pervert is hetero. Kinda proves the point about pervs come from all types.

But back to the topic at hand. This guy deserves to be put away for a long time, and sadly our judicial system will probably not do that. He is one of the problems in our society.

Hooligan, I see the point you are trying to make. And I understand why you are making it, and it probably has a percentage of accuracy to it. The problem is that in a small town, the girls would no doubt see that man many places, many times. And if they are bright enough to understand how our justice system works, they might understandably be afraid that he would be back amongst them on the streets, and be justifiably afraid of that happening.

Now, the fact that they accepted money multiple times does make that position a bit more difficult to defend. Tough spot, all around. Bad man. REALLY bad man. He needs punishment, and needs to be put away so he doesn't ever do this to anyone again.

HOOLIGAN-------- is ure hope and pray that nothing like this happens/or has already happened to ur daughters. u talk all big and bad and that u know ur daughters would/ theyve been taught blah blah blah shet! trust me i was taught at a young age aswell.. however i was a victim for just shy of 5 years. u can shame me u can say what ever. the reason children let this happen is because they are scared. they believe what ever they are told, when u are a young kid your family is everything to u and u will protect them. Apparently the second girl was stronger then the first and thank god for that. but still have to wonder how many more since 1982? i feel really bad for these children and families. they have an extremly long and lengthy road till recovery. (if they ever do completely recover) one thing is for sure..... they will never be the same girl they were.... take care girls get all the help u need...Always remember this was NOT ur fault. just dome sick indivual that needs alot of help and be nuetered!!!!

>agrees with ocean mist

But Hooilgan YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED!

One of the shames here is no matter how hard the police work ,( did a great job, )

The courts 500.00 What a kick in the A** for them ,for us .hummmm Actually its really strange ,as to who actually paid the bail.

JeffDubay

Kevin Stitham is corrupt...Mr. Brown was one of my top 5 teachers I had in school. Yeah I knew he liked to do "fun stuff" now and then like drink or hunt or hang out with his friends, like all of us do to relax, but what Stitham did and blamed it all on him is a disgrace. All had been drinking all had been equally able to drink and were apparently.

TY for the math though

Hooligan, not everyone has parents like you. THAT is why we need stronger sex offender laws. Much more jailtime for these slimbuckets might deter them a little more. And don't give me the b.s. that laws and prisons keep honest people honest, Honest people don't find themselves in jail and in trouble with the law. That is so totallly ridiculous!! Stiffer laws, zero tolerance after one offense and jailtime DO make a difference for predators such as these.

$500 CASH BAIL ? What a joke this court is. The judge needs to be recalled asap.

BangorDS: "Would it be that the mostly male enforcement and legal community underestimates the emotional, psychological and physical damage done to victims?" YES....DEFINITELY YES. That is definitely one factor in these horrible situations and outcomes. Men like this one (article) need to be put away, and then throw away the key! Let's do everything we possibly can to protect young women and others from the sociopaths and psychopaths of this world!

This sicko would not qualify to be a priest. He likes young girls.

All joking aside, though, this pervert definitely needs to be incarcerated immediately. 'NO BAIL - ONLY JAIL", should be his due. Seems like the Judge most likely had some lapse of mental ability, or that he is following the criminal justice punishment codes for the State of Maine. Best check into all of this, folks, before you accuse this Judge of being the after-the-fact victim of the bail established and punishment allocation.

Maybe more, yes MORE can be done by mom and dad at home, to discuss their son's or daughter's activities, and pay more attention as to where they go and when. Don't tell me that some neighbor or someone overhearing this man's discussions or references, did not have an awakening of sorts, when he alluded or saw girls coming and going with him or out of his house, or from the backroom of where he worked so often. Dover-Fox is a small town. It is difficult to believe there were not others who noticed suspiciousness about what was going on all those years.

Our firm, last year, prosecuted, a US citizen who was in a foreign country for the same set of circumstances. He said he began his "interest" on the Internet, seeing young preteens wearing scanty underwear, engaging in video sex acts and posing in provocative poses, etc. Nice beginning for the kids and for adults combined. This may go further than just a local situation.

This dirtbag is out on $500. bail, I wonder if the 65 year old woman that hit the state trooper with a stun gun is out on bail. I bet she gets harsher treatment than this sick freak.

This dirtbag is out on $500. bail, I wonder if the 65 year old woman that hit the state trooper with a stun gun is out on bail. I bet she gets harsher treatment than this sick freak.

I bet you're right, dogman. I bet you are right....

I'm guessing the bail was set so low because he takes care of his mentally ill wife who is house-bound. What I don't know is, is she the mother of the daughter who was molested and if so, what a scumbag she is for staying with him all these years!

I forgot to add....I have taken my boys to Mr. Denbow for the past 15 years for haircuts. He always treated them very well. He always gave them lollipops and was very sociable; remembering their likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc. I never felt any sort of sixth sense that this man was anything more than a sweet old man. I was horrified to learn of what he has done and the story seems to get worse day by day, now with the daughter sharing her story with the BDN. I have tought my youngest boys (5) about stranger danger/sex offenders/kidnappers, etc. When I first read what he had done, I asked them if they thought the man who cuts their hair is a nice man and they both responded with enthusiastic "yesses" . I then told them they he had hurt girls and the police had arrested him because he is a bad man who secretly hurts children. The look of horror on their faces was immediate and some may think that I should have sheltered them from this information. For me, though, it seems to have finally hit home the point I have been trying to get across to both of them that sometimes the nicest people are bad, bad people and that you must always be aware of this and keep yourself safe. I hope he gets a longer jail sentence than the first time he offened and hope that he just doesn't move to another state and start over again when he gets out.

Put this sick pervert away for good....before he hurts any other young girls or anyone. Yes, many times those who seem like perfectly acceptable members of society are anything but inside. One cannot always tell from what is on the outside. Sociopaths (some of them) can be very socialble, friendly,etc. It proves nothing! This is one despicable human being.

Hooligan 10/17/09 11:25~ You don't know the specifics of this case. There are many reasons why a girl (a minor remember), might take money for sex. (ie: food, fearing for her safety, blackmail and even fearful that they may not be believed if they tell etc...) Obviously, you've never walked in the shoes of a victim because if you did, you'd understand a little better.

Obviously this man didn't learn from his first albeit short stint in prison. Time to make the rules for offenders tougher!! CAN OUR LAWMAKERS HEAR US???!!!

Maniac 10/17/09 n n6:31 PM~ You absolutely did the right thing by telling your children what this man did. Unfortunately, we have to teach our children that not all adults can be trustworthy. It's perverts like him who ruin it for truly wonderful people who would be great influences for our kids.

Perhaps it's time for us to contact our legislators about making tougher laws for sex offenders.... come on people... pick up your phones and call today!!!

Amazed > couldn't have been said any better..

10-17-09 mainiac >no not the same woman . .

"There are many reasons why a girl (a minor remember), might take money for sex. (ie: food, fearing for her safety, blackmail and even fearful that they may not be believed if they tell etc...) Obviously, you've never walked in the shoes of a victim because if you did, you'd understand a little better. "

OBVIOUSLY you don't know me or my history.

I am not indifferent to the susceptibility of young people to sexual predators due to their young ages and inexperience in life. In fact, I think I've already said as much in a different post. Young people are targeted by all kinds of abusive entities such as drug dealers, gang leaders, the military, banking institutions, television....the list is endless. Young people are the preferred target for all kinds of evil things.

To address your comment a bit more specifically; you are correct. I was never sexually abused. I was, however, propositioned once; and offered compensation. At a very young age too incidentally. I recall the instant feelings of repulsion and disgust. The very thought of engaging in the act this MAN suggested nearly made me physically ill. In retrospect, I should have deployed my boy scout knife and eviscerated him on the spot. Being young and timid I didn't.

Over the years I have wondered; and perhaps this helps me understand. If my potential abuser had been, say....someone along the lines of Raquel Welch perhaps I would have succumbed. For that matter maybe I'd have been a willing and able repeat 'victim' to the tune of 'hundreds of times'. It's difficult to presume I suppose.

Now let the fur fly :-)

Hooligan~ I'm not here to "let the fur fly", and I'm very sorry that you had to endure a proposition at the hands of a would be molester. I'm simply stating that there are varying circumstances that take place before the molesting happens which factor into the entire ordeal such as: age, food, shelter, clothing, etc... the basic necessities of life, perhaps lack of love, or maybe the molester raped the child first and then coerced her into accepting money and told her that as long as she took his bribe he would not tell her parent (s) what she did. Making the child think the whole ordeal was of her doing and making her shameful or fearful. That puts the molester in control of everything that happens until finally, he/she is revealed or until the molester or the child finally ends it. I think that if you could sit in a courtroom and listen to some of these stories, you would be shocked.

No hard feelings Hooligan, just trying to help people understand what actually takes place.... I do understand your perspective, but there are varying circumstances.

hooligan, comments like the ones you made blaming the victim ARE part of the reason these girls will suffer additional shame and pain. They didn't run away because a pedophile doesn't simply walk up out of the blue and say, "Hey, wanna have sex with me for money?" A pedophile grooms his victims. He becomes their friend and confidant. He tries to gain their trust and sympathy. He crosses the line a little at a time, leaving young victims confused. Kids always think everything is their fault -- a parent's drinking or divorce, for example. Once abuse has occured, they feel guilty and wonder what it is about them that made this awful thing happen. And the pedophile knows all this and plays on that guilt and shame to keep the kid quiet. What you call a "girl like that" is a victim. And attitudes like yours are part of what victimizes them. How do I know? I grew up here being that girl, judged for acting out but with no grown up ever thinking to wonder why I was acting out. And my abuser once "paid" me by sending me to an ice cream stand with money for drinks for the rest of the household but a fried chicken dinner for myself. I obediently purchased everything I had been told to, threw the chicken dinner in the trash can, and returned with the drinks for everyone else. Instead of blaming these girls, how about you step up to be an advocate for children and educate yourself about the ways that abusers manipulate them and the ways that this kind of abuse harms them?

hooligan, having read your most recent post, let me rephrase. Not EVERY pedophile simply walks up and says, "Hey, wanna have sex with me for money?" There are many who establish relationships with victims first, who groom the kids and manipulate the situation in such ways that the kid ends up feeling that there is no way out and no one to turn to. After one encounter where you were not touched but were offered money in exchange for sex with an adult, you are still so shaken you wish you had gutted the guy in retrospect? Think how these young women feel, and how shaken they are, after their encounters. They were afraid it was their fault. They were afraid they nobody would believe them. They were afraid even if someone did believe them, they would be blamed. They were afraid people would look at them and treat them differently. They were children and they were afraid...get it?

The $500 cash bail is probably the 10% that had to be posted for his release thus making the bail an original $5000. Still too low though.

Mainiac, it's the "sweet old men" who are the worse; they pretend that they are helpless when in fact they are ruthless. I am glad that you were honest with your children about what this hideous man has done to other little children.

Thank you "PointOView".... you said it perfectly,

Actually folks I do 'get it'. I've been truthful in my posts, but I have also tried to introduce a 'devil's advocate' kind of perspective.

Sexual predators....let me rephrase....sociopathic predators of any kind are evil and VERY MANIPULATIVE. They are cunning and intelligent at least as it suits their objective.

As a parent I am an advocate of children. I agree with practically every post on this thread to the extent that old letch, and every pedophile like him, receive the punishment they so richly deserve.

Children today, unfortunately, aren't as well prepared for evil as children in the past were. One of the reasons my potential abuser never succeeded was because I was taught better. I went to church. I didn't watch MTV or any else of the constant flow of SEWAGE that is pumped in to children's heads via TV that's available these days. I was a scout. I spent time outdoors making my own fun instead of playing explicit video games. I WORKED and was productive (not necessarily by choice) because my old man insisted I work. I had a set of values instilled in me by parents who cared enough to instill them. I instinctively KNEW what that jerk had in mind was WRONG. Nobody had to tell me and I didn't have to think about it.

I'm not necessarily slamming parents either. There are a lot of good parents fighting an uphill battle with a society in decline. America is rotting from the inside out and we are all victims in one way or the other.

Incidentally, why didn't anyone nail me for the Raquel Welch comment? :-)

Hooligan, how fortunate for you that the pedophile you met was one that would take no for an answer, and that was not a fixture in your life with time to groom you. I am nearly 50. I grew up here. I fished, camped, hiked, hunted. I worked in the woods, around our yard and in our house. I attended church, where by the way one married deacon tried to proposition me because I already had that bad reputation (I was 13 by then), and a decaon's son asked me on the church steps how much I might charge for a certain sexual favor -- not seriously but as an insult to put me down on the porch of God's house. Fresh air, good values and hard work did not save me, or any other person who had the misfortune to cross paths with the wrong kind of adult. Pedophiles have been with us always, as have damaged children. Until our society is willing to place blame where it belongs, which is NEVER with the child, and willing to take a real stand against pedophiles, things will not get better -- with or without MTV. Every person who knew that man had been convicted of a crime and still supported his business helped him commit these newest crimes. So did every person who knew these girls and maybe looked down on them instead of wondering if they were in trouble. Ditto for those who judge them now. Why is it that in our small towns where we all know who has been accused of beating a wife, abusing a child, committing rape -- these folks can still manage to make a living and hold their heads up in our towns? It's because we let them...

a_realrain_willcome...ummmmmmm he is a heterosexual male as are most molesters.

Re 11:55 AM a_realrain_willcome...... You, ignoramus, need to get educated. This man is a sick, evil sociopath who preyed on young girls. He is a married heterosexual man as the vast majority of these perverts and molesters are. Get your facts straight!!

Good to see the BDN pulled a_realrain_willcome comments of the comments section. They still remain on the overview page but at least they are gone here.

Glad they pulled the remarks of that individual.....no need for it. Now there are a few others (last night...late) that hopefully will be addressed in the near future if that individual (s) continues on in the same vein. JD, you would have some idea of who I reference!!

$500 for bail?! That is insanely low for what this man has done.

Where are all the same-sex marriage opponents who are so convinced that all child molesters are gay?

Methinks this sad, hurtful tale is more fact than they can tolerate.

I hope this monster gets what he deserves in PMITA prison.

What a disgusting being he is.

NOT YET... DESTROY HIM

still a *!&^#%STICK PERVERT

These two girls would probably never been abused by this pedophile if the state had done it's job in monitoring him and putting him on the sex offender registry. Parents need to also talk to their kids about this kind of thing. You HAVE to warn them that there are people out there who would do this kind of thing to them if given an opportunity. Also, for every sex offender listed on the registry there are probably 5-10 more that aren't on it but need to be or just haven't ever been caught yet.

This guy seriously needs to be locked up and not ever let out again.

Really? Seriously? His daughter was alarmed that he would sexually abuse someone else? Are you KIDDING ME? There is nothing alarming about that. I would have been shocked if he HAD NOT abused other children. Get real. I was sexually abused starting at age one by my dad as were some of my other siblings. Three in our family were his biological children and the other three were his stepchildren. Nothing he would do could alarm me. When someone is sexually attracted to children I think the sky is the limit. He even did things to my German Shepherd. He was found guilty in a court of law but never did any jail time because the statute of limitations had run out. He is free as a bird and will never pay for his crimes. I live in fear every minute of every day while he walks free. People talk so tough and seem to be so angry about it when it first is revealed but I have yet to see someone actually take any action. No one is really protecting the children. If you do business with these perps you are supporting their crimes. If you speak to them you are supporting their crimes. If you say hello to them in the store you are supporting their crimes. If you sweep it under the rug and act like they never did these things you are supporting their crimes. I feel so betrayed and revictimized by people in the Sangerville area who support my father every day. It sends the message that you all don't really care about how much pain we are still in because of the sexual abuse. Do you really care or are you just trying to look like a hero? WE WERE CHILDREN AND HE RAPED US. I am alarmed by the fact that this daughter is alarmed that Mr. Denbow would rape someone else. I would be shocked if he had only abused her. Smarten up, people. Open your eyes and start protecting these kids! The pain we live with is worse than any prison.

PointOView, I didn't state that a good set of values, as well as a quality upbringing makes a child immune to exploitation. What I am saying is that it does give a person the tools they need to meet life, and its myriad of challenges and pitfalls, head on.

I had/have a good sense of what was right and wrong. Sadly, I don't think kids have that instilled in them as well as it should be. Of course some will have more than others, but overall I think society is producing far too many young people who don't have a good enough sense of right and wrong.

Children are being raised in a society that is becoming increasingly secular, liberal and humanistic. People no longer have a well developed sense of morality. I have made points in past posts about gay marriage. I do not oppose gay marriage but not because I think it's a good thing. I don't oppose it because I see it as the natural progression of a society in decline. It's the inevitable outcome so why fight it? Our society is merely reaping it's reward. Opposing it makes as much sense as opposing taxes...it's a useless endeavor.

As unpopular as moral values are in society, they do exist for a purpose. That purpose is to provide the society some structure and guidance. Without a compass to guide us and a support structure to support us our society is doomed. It doesn't take a genius to see it either. American society is circling the drain and there isn't a damn thing any of us can do about it. We are doomed to repeat the failures of past societies. Believe you me we are not the first society on this planet to have followed this path. All societies eventually fail and the progression is remarkably similar.

I suppose my opinion is aimed more at the bigger picture and less at the little pervert in the newspaper article. People like him are a fact of life..they're like roaches, or rats...they are parasitic. It's the good moral fiber of a society that keeps them in check. When society loses it's moral compass these disease vectors run rampant. This sicko got away with his activities, in part, because the children he targeted were vulnerable. The children were vulnerable, in part, because of their lack of moral teaching. Simply put, they were ill prepared to resist people like the little pervert in the barber shop. I'm not slamming parents either. As the saying goes, it takes a village to raise a child. None of us raise our children in a vacuum. Most are educated in public schools which are notoriously secular and liberal. Most children see raw sewage on TV 24/7. Most parents are working their butts off to pay the stinking government the taxes they demand, and have little time left for quality parenting. Children don't have good social outlets anymore. It's a recipe for disaster.

Iheartpeace, I am so sorry about what happened to you. I care about what happens to children. You are so right; to even converse with a child molester gives them the feeling that they are excepted and "okay" by society. They need to be shunned and then placed in jail so that they cannot hurt another child. I also feel bad for this molester's daughter; not only did she have a mother who was mentally ill but a father who raped her for years. I hope and pray that you find some peace and happiness in your life, iheartpeace. You were, and still are, innocent of the crimes that were committed against you. You are still a little lamb. And maybe moving far away from Sangerville is the best thing a person can do.

So what authority keeps these judges on the bench? Even if a judge is initially appointed, don't judges in Maine (at some point) have to be elected? What is wrong with this state (other that so much)? THE PEOPLE need to take back their power through the vote. Vote "YES" on Qestion #4 and then we can move forward and take better control of the courts as well.

As an aside and certainly not pointing fingers but in deference to this strange miscarriage of paperwork, I am closely related to this case and I upon meeting this man had all of my alarm bells go off and asked my spouse to look up this man on the database, he of course was not there. That being the case one felt as if one were just being suspicious and unfeeling in a new town. I never warmed to his seemingly false shenanigans and "concern" for my family as there was always an underlying sense of falseness and creepiness to be had in my meetings with him. I also always found it suspicious that his own family had vanished from memory or conversations , it was as if several years of his life had disappeared. However ones own suspicions are not reason enough to deny friendliness to ones family members..I however never stopped keeping an eye on him and his activities..I shall betray no more except for the fact that the first family moved because of him but the girl had not come forward out of fear, so they moved on suspicion and stalking related concerns. The parents and children involved in this are loving, watchful, communicative, but prone to lapses of humanity like all others. Leave the children and parents away from your condemnation the parents of one of them as I stated spoke of concern and if he was on the database at the time none of this would have happened as he was looked up during heavy speculation and concern on the part of the family early on....this man is more sinister and evil than you know and it is no surprise to find a family abuse it was an early theory of mine ..let instead move forward and feel slightly safer that this sinister, wretched excuse for a human being has already begun his scarlet letter styled hell and soon shall learn the meaning of prison justice to his ilk.....

This is a hot topic. Teenage prostitutes, guilty wives of child molesters, estranged daughters having flashbacks, incompetent court systems, even gay marraige debates. All this does not change the fact that people like this are sick individuals. There is no excuse and anyone who believes there is any way to help people like this or forgive this kind of behavior should be locked up with people like this for a few days and God forbid they should have children. Anyone who would do any of this kind of harm to a child, and there are a lot of them out there unfortunatly, has no right to breath the same air as the rest of civilized society. I believe there is no excuse for this kind of behavior and if you're convicted of a crime as a pedophile you should be locked up with BUBBA until you're barely alive and then your last breath should be gas.

right on dogman, couldnt of said it any better myself!!!

hooligan, let me see if I understand this time...it's not a good set of values and quality upbringing that saved you from being molested. It's your good sense of what is right and wrong...so it follows that children who are molested LACK a good sense of right and wrong....which tracks right back to it being something the VICTIM did that contributed to the abuse? I think you might benefit from repeating the following phrase a few times, "There but for the grace of God go I."

It was nothing about you that saved you. It was about not running into the wrong kind of adult at an age where you were left vulnerable. Your perv asked, took no for an answer and walked out of your life. Lucky, lucky you. Might of been harder to say no if he lived in your house, controlled your food, threatened to harm your loved ones. Might of been harder to say no if he didn't ask first. You have no idea what any other victim has gone through, and your statements are still judgmental and place at least some of the blame on the child.

What was that Jesus said about first removing the log from your own eye?

what the $%#*

500 hundred dollar bail

oh come on

my ex payed a bigger fine for two pot plants this dude is molesting our kids and your letting him off for 500 bucks seriously we need to work on our state fines and laws and taxes

wishing and hoping that BUBBA will get this man in prison is all after the fact; after the fact that this scum has already terrriby hurt alot of children. What the people of Maine need to do is elect judges that are on the side of VICTIMS instead of PERPETRATORS. Checking past political records of judges stand on these issues does help. We also need to tell our legislators that child sexual assault and molestations is NOT ACCEPTABLE and will not be tolerated. We need to lobby for laws that will be more than a slap on the wrist; NO BAIL, and longer, much longer jailtime upon conviction.

Perhaps one of the girl victims of this scuzball "accepted payment" because she has been molested previously by someone else, and thought this was normal behavior.

"Note that this guy is heterosexual!"

Pedos are neither hetero not homo. In many cases they will go after boys or girls it doesn't matter to them they just like them young. The pro-homos here like to point out the hetero ones and make excuses for the homo ones. The anti-homos do the same in the other direction.

I don't think either is right.

This is just one more perversion like the rest and once enough of you marginalize it the laws will change as they do and it will become normal.

Don't say it can't happen. I've already seen a bit of it in these posts here. One pster commented on how much 15 year olds know now as opposed to when he was young and that is the comment that leads the push for lowering of the age of consent.

Hmmm, it sounds like a good cear case of insanity to me" He was just crazy over the girl"

And he is a barber- proberbly looking to check the "short hairs"

Office cleaning- thats a new one--- "Ahh mom, Im going to the barber shop tonight", to ahhem "clean the office."

All and all, I am amazed, for an old worn out guy, he still had the ability and stamina.

Not to bright though, proberbly not a lot of schooling to cut hair, because, if he had found 18 year olds, then it would be just solicitation and prostitution.

but then again, it would be harder to say "if your good and sit still and dont make a fuss, I will give you a lollipop when we are done.

And now he is free to walk around amongst us! for a little while anyway- that must be like having a terminal illness- nice days, each one going by, untill the day the get you to court, cuz you know they are building his gallows to hang him after his fair trial, Which with the media coverage, and public opinion working the way it will, why even bother with a trial, hang him now! In the village square we shall set the gallows , or better yet , bring back something like public burning, or stoneing, Cuz that would proberbly solve the problems.

With all that said, he might just be better off going back to the lockup, and get a refund, he will be afforded more safty behind bars.

Anyone got a light for my tourch?

"If convicted of his most recent alleged crimes, he'll get another slap on the wrist, thanks to Maine's namby-pamby liberal justice system."

Doubt it. This isn't 1982. I expect once convicted he won't be free ever again. The 12 year olds story if given in court will roast him.

sassykat01, i hear you. i was a victim also and it was on more than one occasion, i guess according to hooligan that makes me just as responsible.

who r u gonna tell? they scare you to hell, make it feel like it is your fault, try to include you into it. you never recover, and hooligan, i have to really wonder what you r all about. i hope you don't have kids, cause you would probably not believe it if they told you they were molested.you make it sound like this is a recent problem, the tv, the music, the schools.

it has been going on forever and you should know that.answer point of views questions, since you knew so much at a young age then.it is high time to change the laws that allow this to go on. just putting them in jail, in there on little corner by the way is all wrong. make them feel that pain that victims do, but that would be impossible.

You are right newportes. Pedophiles are neither heterosexual or homosexual, although many have hetersexual relationships with women. Their partner of choice for sex is children, as sick as that is. A friend of mine who married presumbably a great guy, discovered that he had been molesting their three daughters. And she and her husband had a regular sex life. It's not about sex but about power, the power of an adult over a little child's life, which is a turnon to pedophiles.

As far as the sex offender registry goes... we need to keep a watchful eye on that... he's not the only one who's a sex offender that's not on the registry!!

WAKE UP AUGUSTA... GET WITH THE PROGRAM HERE... YOUR FAILURES ARE COSTING WE THE TAX PAYERS TOO MUCH MONEY!!!!!

why not leave them on a nice little island with out a boat, and sen grocerys every week

Marsexplorer~ You're far too nice... I wouldn't even send groceries.

Most of you all are saying the right thing, being conserned for the girls and their families and that is appreciated. Some of you however are very insensitive. I understand that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, that is one of the many things that make out country so great. I understand that people are going to read a couple of paragraphs and think they know the whole story and form opinions. What I don't understand is how some of you are so insensitive to put your comments out there that have the ability to hurt the victims and their families more then they already are. If you don't have anything supportive to say why put it out their so the victims can read it. Do you not think that they will be reading what people have to say about this? If your opinion is not something that you would share with the victims, show some resstaint and don't post them! Those girls and their families need to hear words of support right now because they are litterally going through hell, why make it worse.

cjosmom makes a very good point. Our community should be rallying around these girs and helping them heal rather than adding to their pain. Another thing for the cruel folks on here to ponder is this -- he was convicted back in the early 80s. He has now been caught again in 2009. How many victims have their been between that first conviction and the present charges? And will those victims ever feel comfortable coming forward or getting the help they need and deserve after seeing how harshly the first two very brave girls have been treated by some members of our community? If you aren't part of the solution, folks, then you are part of the problem.

I'm surprised that no one posting claimed that this guy wasn't responsible for his actions because of "mental health issues."

Personally, I think the proper course of action to take with people like this guy would be to lop off their gonads, shove 'em down their throat and let 'em suffocate on 'em.

Just wondering why there was never any news about Denbow and his evilness in the Moosehead Messenger..................

Got the perfect solution to the problem go ahead and fry the dude put him on the conveyor belt that goes to the grinder then dump the crap into a bag and mark compost spread him over the yard now he is contributing to the community ya'll have a good day from Georgia

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