Near death offers clues to afterlife
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Near death offers clues to afterlife


By Lee Witting

In my Voices column of Oct. 24, 2009, I wrote about a conference I had attended on near-death experience. In the process, I made passing reference to my own near-death experience when I was a child. Since then, a number of readers asked me to describe the experience, so here it is.

When I was 7 years old, I drowned in a lake near Branchville, N.J. In retrospect, I was too old not to have known how to swim, but I didn’t. As a result, I waded out to a point where the lake bottom dropped off sharply, and there I lost my footing. I came up once, just long enough to scream, and then I sank to the bottom. Fortunately, my mother heard my yell, and ran out from the cottage in time to see what was happening. Fully dressed, she ran into the water, dived down, dragged me out, and got me breathing again.

What makes the incident more memorable than other close calls I’ve had in my life was the fact that, although my body was at the bottom of the lake, I was observing the scene from the top of a nearby birch tree. I watched as my mother, wearing her red dress, ran down the stairs from the cabin, jumped into the water, and hauled me out. She then invented a form of CPR by throwing me face down over a log, and pressing on my back to force the water from my lungs. That action got me breathing again, and then I was back in my very painful body. I’ve always felt great gratitude to my mother for twice giving me life.

For years after that, I had a recurring dream. I was sinking down, but looking up at a light surrounded by what I took to be dark, swirling water. In my dream, the light was the light at the water’s surface, surrounded by the lake’s roiling darkness. It was not until I was an adult, and swam down into that same lake to re-examine the experience, that I realized the view up to the surface wasn’t like my dreams at all. Still, it took years after that for me to recognize the tunnel and the light were classic aspects of a near-death experience.

Confusion about the tunnel and the light aside, my most important memory has been the sustained knowledge that we are not only our bodies, but a consciousness that can leave our dying body and still maintain our “selfness,” and sustain a point of view. Being 7, I didn’t question the remarkable nature of this discovery. In my naivete, I just assumed that was the way things worked; when you die, your soul continues to live. And my Sunday school training confirmed that belief. No big deal.

My fascination with near-death experiences has stayed with me, however, to the extent that now I’m in the throes of completing a doctoral project on the subject at Bangor Theological Seminary. In the process, I’ve discovered some fundamental truths about the near-death experience:

— Near-death experiences are not rare, as you might expect. With the increased medical capabilities for restarting the heart of someone clinically dead, many, many people have experienced their souls leaving their bodies and the visions that accompany that experience. George Gallup estimated that as much as 5 percent of the U.S. population has had a near-death experience. That would represent about 15 million people in this country alone.

— Many near-death experiencers have gone further than my own experience describes. Those who go through the tunnel toward the light often are met by “beings of light,” who they sometimes describe as deceased relatives, angels, Jesus, or God. They describe, as well, being wrapped in indescribable love. Most are very disappointed to learn that it is not yet their time to die, and they must return to what is often a damaged, pain-filled body.

— Though there are cultural and interpretative differences in the near-death experience descriptions provided by people of different religions and traditions, most reports are basically the same; whether Buddhist, Hindu, Muslim, Jew, or Christian, the experience is fundamentally the same.

This third point creates, for some fundamentalists, an insurmountable barrier to accepting the evidence of the near-death experience. For fundamentalists of whatever stripe, it’s not the way their tradition teaches that death should happen, and so they reject a window into the afterlife that, I believe, God provides us for a reason. The near-death experience should increase our faith in the soul’s immortality, and nothing less.

Some doctors argue that the near-death experience is a trick of the dying brain, and that the tunnel and the light are merely the narrowing of peripheral vision. They can’t explain, however, the fact that near-death experiencers see and hear from a point of view outside their body — the mother pulling her child from the water, or the paramedics struggling to start the heart again, or the relatives sobbing in the next room — before their soul begins its journey into the light.

Let me add one final thought for those who think the near-death experience resolves doctrinal questions about heaven and hell, reincarnation, resurrection, final judgment, and the like. This experience is only a glimpse of the first step the soul takes after the body dies. What happens after that is an experience reserved for those who have truly died.

But near-death experiences do offer a clue that there may be judgment, or self-judgment, to follow. Many who experience this phenomenon go through a comprehensive life review of what they have done, both good and bad, with their time on Earth. Some report seeing how they hurt others through the other person’s eyes. Needless to say, this can be a very painful experience. There are consequences for everything we do. That, too, is a lesson from the light.

Lee Witting is pastor of the Union Street Brick Church in Bangor. He may be reached at leewitting@midmaine.com. Voices is a weekly commentary by Maine people who explore issues affecting spirituality and religious life.

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I believe the bible is clear on this. We all will stand before Christ immediately after death, all of us. The major difference is, will you face Him as judge or will you be received as one of His children? That will be determined before you die. Reject Him as Lord and Savior and you will also be rejected. There are no exceptions. We all have a soul, where will yours spend eternity. Mr. Whiting you should read and study scripture and save yourself a great deal of useless time trying to explain it any other way.

i have too done a study on NDE's ,as in my life thus far i have seen some things that most people would consider strange to the point if i would tell some people of i saw they would consider me crazy,at any point here is the story of why i begin to study Near-death experiences i was working at a radio station a few years back when i met a man named gregg he was dating a women that had a little girl she was about 5 if i recall at any rate this women was driving home from work when she went off the road and hit a tree, mom was hurt but the little girl really got hit hard she had died and was revived to a coma state which she stayed for a week well gregg was upset and so wasnt mom,they stayed with the girl at her bed side hoping she would be ok she awoke and as mom was crying and hugging and kissing her gregg said she looked at her mom and said its ok mommy i was with Jesus,now heres the kicker mom never mentioned God or Jesus to this little girl nor did gregg ,needless to say this changed gregg and her mom to consider there is God and His Son named Jesus,i was blessed to meet this little girl at the radio station about a week after she awoke blonde hair and blue eyes all i can say is that i looked at this little lady and all i could see was star stuff,with all the insight i had at that point in my life i was in awe of her she was bless and i know that she will do great things in her life,after this i began to study ..many books a Dr Moody wrote like 3 books of the subject check him out ,ive worked with hospice as well, all i can say There is God His son came down here died for us and we will have to give a account for our actions and if you still wonder if there is a God look into the eyes of a new born baby ,oh heres a bit of insight i have picked up for all you that consider theres no God

on both sides of the spectrum you say a name if you break your leg or your in massive pain your scream out a name and yet when your making love or in the throws of passion you scream out a name whos name Do you call???????

I know you think you're helping to save souls, forHIM, but you really should try to save your own first.

4Him, I think Lee Witting (note spelling) has read and studied scripture (plus a lot of material on NDE) and is not spending "useless" time.

Karenlite, I wonder if he is trying to save souls. I'm suspicious of certainty, especially when it applies to religion.

Lee Witting, interesting thesis, looking forward toward your completion.

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