AUGUSTA, Maine — Maine law mandates that people who work with children and dependent adults report suspected abuse or neglect to state authorities.

Yet, as the Maine State Police report on the investigation of alleged sexual abuse by the late Rev. Robert Carlson indicates, many people — even those required by law to do so — remain reluctant to report suspected abuse.

Why?

Confusion about what constitutes grounds for submitting a report, fear of harming reputations, not knowing the victims, lack of resources, personal risk and a “culture of silence,” especially about sexual abuse, all impede the reporting process, according to those who work with assault victims.

“Folks don’t want to report because they don’t have proof and, if they’re wrong, they fear it will reflect badly” on the subject of the report and the reporter, said Sue Hall Dreher, executive director of Sexual Support Services of Midcoast Maine.

“The law is clear. All we need is suspicion, not proof,” Hall Dreher said. Mandated reporters aren’t investigators, but alerting authorities of their suspicions “makes it possible for professionals trained to investigate to do their jobs,” she said.

Some medical professionals and others with close contacts to families in which abuse is suspected “don’t want to risk the relationship they have established with the family or believe they can work with the family through this,” said Therese Cahill-Low, director of the Maine Department of Health and Human Services’ Office of Child and Family Services.

“Other professionals have told me they don’t report because they feel that our staff is already overloaded and overwhelmed, while others don’t believe we will do anything anyway, so it’s not worth the risk,” Cahill-Low said.

In high-profile cases such as those involving Carlson and Jerry Sandusky, an assistant football coach at Penn State recently convicted of sexually abusing boys over decades, “numerous people had reason to suspect and, for whatever reason, they didn’t believe what they suspected rose to the level of reporting,” Hall Dreher said.

“People don’t want to believe outstanding members of a community would do something,” said Cara Courchesne, communications and outreach coordinator for the Maine Coalition Against Sexual Assault. “They are the person the community trusts. It gives them access to children.”

Fear that an allegation of abuse against a prominent figure could be viewed as malicious also creates reluctance among mandated reporters, Hall Dreher said.

When weighing the potential damage to the reputation of a well-established figure accused of abuse, the conflict often breaks down to possibly hurting someone the reporter knows versus harming someone that they don’t know, namely a victim, according to Hall Dreher.

The anonymity of what often can be a network of victims makes it hard to appreciate the direct human effect of failing to report suspected abuse, she said.

“If one person suspects something and makes that call to authorities, the facade of the abuser will begin to crack, and investigations will reveal the truth,” Cahill-Low said.

Concern about negative effects on reputations extends beyond individuals to organizations, according to Brunswick police Capt. Mark Waltz, a veteran criminal investigator who is chairman of the Sexual Assault Support Services of Midcoast Maine board.

“I’m aware of some agencies that deal with children that tell their workers they should make their reports to their supervisors rather than to DHHS directly,” Waltz said.

In that vein, Courchesne expressed concern about “institutional issues” that might preclude lower-echelon employees from reporting abuse “for fear of what someone above them might do.”

“If a janitor sees abuse, they should be able to report to a supervisor and make a good-faith assumption that the report will move up,” she said.

An institutional “you tell us and we’ll tell the state” approach creates an “extra layer of bureaucracy,” Waltz said. “DHHS, not employers, should be screening reports.”

Change the system?

High-profile abuse cases such as those involving Carlson and Sandusky trigger calls to strengthen the law. But experts interviewed for this report generally agree that Maine’s mandated reporter law and abuse response system work.

“We have a good system in place,” Hall Dreher said. “The problem is more human nature than the system. It’s hard for a caller to make a report and not know the outcome.”

To promote direct reporting, Waltz suggested that the phrase “or cause a report to be made” be stricken from the mandated reporter law. The law simply should read “shall report,” he said.

Stricter enforcement of financial sanctions against mandated reporters who fail to abide by the law might improve compliance among professionals whose licensing could be affected, Waltz said. The Brunswick Police Department never has prosecuted a mandated reporter for failure to submit a report, according to Waltz. DHHS spokesman John Martins told the Bangor Daily News that the penalty is rarely, if ever, applied.

As to whether more professions should be added to the list of mandated reporters, Cahill-Low replied, “I am of the belief that everyone should be a mandated reporter.”

The Department of Health and Human Services offers free online training for mandated reporters. Hall Dreher and Waltz both endorsed more standardized training for mandated reporters.

Cahill-Low said her office is looking into having training done by professionals in the particular field.

“It seems likely training done to a group of pediatricians would be more effective if done by a trained pediatrician, to a group of law enforcement officials by a trained police officer, or to a group of school personnel by a person within that school setting,” she said.

“Given what I see many children go through before we actually get a call, [the system] has to improve,” Cahill-Low said, “Our next generation depends on it.”

A new conversation

Rather than tweaking laws, Courchesne said, society needs to change the underlying cultural systems that allow abuse to continue.

“The more people are willing to talk about abuse in general, the more comfortable it will be to talk about it when there’s a suspicion — when it really matters,” she said.

In a “culture of silence” created by the unpleasant nature of the topic, “so much fear around talking about the issue becomes paralyzing,” she said.

Referring to websites such as Stop It Now! Courchesne said it’s possible to talk about sexual abuse in a way that emphasizes nurturing safer communities rather than a climate of suspicion.

“Child abuse and neglect is not an easy topic to talk about; we have to cut through the stigma,” Cahill-Low said. “We as a society have some responsibility for ensuring the safety of children; children cannot protect themselves and are often threatened not to tell anyone of the abuse. They also often love their abusers. We as adults need to do what we can to protect children, even if it makes us uneasy.”

To report suspected child abuse or neglect, call 800-452-1999.

Robert Long is a political analyst for the Bangor Daily News.

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  1. I should not shocked by some of the attitudes reported in this article, but I am appalled as well as shocked. What part of “mandated reporter” is unclear to the professionals working with children and their families? It is no optional, nor is it up to them to decide whether it is a reportable incident. That responsibility belongs to DHHS, not them.

    1. DHHS couldn’t tell the difference between child abuse and a hole in the ground.  They’re more about picking on parents who can’t afford to fight back, and fluffing their numbers to make it look like they’re actually doing the job they’re paid for.

  2. BDN really needs to stop pushing this child abuse propaganda that is simply going to cause parents to fear bringing their kids to a doctor or sending them to school for fear that some mandated reporter will rat them to the child abuse hotline because the kid fell off their bike and scraped their knee.  

        1. How do you know nobody made the call?  DHHS wouldn’t divulge that information.  If they did it would simply bring another of their failures to light.

    1. There is a difference between accidental injury and injury that is deliberately inflicted on a child. The truth has a way of coming out, even if it takes a long time.

      1. I agree that there is a difference between an accidental injury and one that is deliberately inflicted on the child.  DHHS however, is not about finding the truth.  They are about finding easy targets and allocation of services.   An easy target would be one who can not afford the tens of thousands of dollars it would take to hire a good lawyer to fight a cruel and unjust system.  Carlson probably could.  That’s why they ignored this case for so long.

  3. Sex is here to stay, but like most State Programs, this one does not work very well. It should only be termed ‘Abuse’, if the Child said it was, not the Mother, or another agency. 

    1. In most instances, a child is too intimidated to say anything outright. But their behavior tells those who recognize the signs that there is reason to be concerned. Sex between consenting adults is entirely their business, but they need to leave the children out of it. And adults who know what is going on when children are being abused have a duty to take appropriate action to protect them. Otherwise, they are as guilty as the perpetrators.

      1. Mimi: you have your opinion, I have mine, which is based upon going through childhood myself. Sex is to be enjoyed at all ages. Everyone must learn at some point, and my feeling are the earlier, the better. —– Original Message —–
        From: Disqus
        To: hobo1a@myfairpoint.net
        Sent: Friday, August 17, 2012 10:22 AM
        Subject: [bdn] Re: Confusion and fear contribute to lack of sexual abuse reports

        Mimi2kool wrote, in response to hobo1a:

        In most instances, a child is too intimidated to say anything outright. But their behavior tells those who recognize the signs that there is reason to be concerned. Sex between consenting adults is entirely their business, but they need to leave the children out of it. And adults who know what is going on when children are being abused have a duty to take appropriate action to protect them. Otherwise, they are as guilty as the perpetrators.
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          1. Mimi: Some like it hot, some like it cold, others, in the pot 9 days old. Think what you will. God, gave man ‘Woman’. A greater gift would be hard to consider, but weak men have turned her over to Satan, to destroy mankind. Shortly, He will right this wrong. Peace. (Last comment). —– Original Message —–
            From: Disqus
            To: hobo1a@myfairpoint.net
            Sent: Friday, August 17, 2012 4:08 PM
            Subject: [bdn] Re: Confusion and fear contribute to lack of sexual abuse reports

            Mimi2kool wrote, in response to hobo1a:

            That is a very revealing comment. It makes me wonder…

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  4. It seems to me that the problem was not overzealous workers picking on parents, but a number of people who suspected sexual abuse of children by Carlson for years and failed to speak up.

  5. So “the experts” know why the folks who “suspected” child abuse did not report? 

    How can “The State” prove what a person “suspected?”
    What is the State “mandated” to do when a report is tendered?
    How is the “mandated reporter” protected from his employer’s retaliation?
    If the child is in therapy, are they or the person who paid for the therapy the clients?”
    Is Client/therapist communication “protected?”

    When I was young I made a report (as a mandated reporter) to the then D.H.S. office in Augusta.  The guy who “followed up” the report was named “Hinckley” (This was in 1979) Hinckley called my boss, and I was discharged.  When I inquired “How can this be” I was told I should have reported the abuse to the agency I worked for first.  Since the “agency” was the perturtrator of the abuse, that would have been an excercise in futility.

    I understand PERFECTLY why someone might fail to “report”.  It is a simple matter of putting their own family’s well-being above that of their client.

    1. In Portland, if you complain about a teacher, they’ll retaliate against you with a false report, and they’ll be protected when doing so.

    2. Even back then, your identity should have been protected as a matter of both policy and the law. Otherwise, why would anyone ever report abuse?

  6. Confusion and Fear.  Is that what they are calling it?  Well what about the fact that anyone molested by a pedophile, most of them can read.  Their parents can also read.  They read this very paper and see that these scum of the earth get sentenced to very little time, with most of it suspended because of Plea agreements by the District Attorney’s office.  People would come forward much more often if they thought the person abusing them would be safely behind bars for a long time as they should be.  Fix the system, then you will see a slew of people coming forward.  Until then, many would rather keep quiet rather than face even worse consequences.

  7. Why don’t you just come out and say you screwed up for years on the Carlson Drama and a lot of people that knew what was going on and did they NOTHING. The only thing you did was when he jumped to his death you started singing like parrots. You all know who you are  right Bangor.

    1. They’re just trying to take the focus off of their own failures and place it onto mandated reporters.

  8. DHHS IS CORRUPT! DHHS-CPS does not have the mental ability to make such decisions. People who make false reports to CPS, suspecions or false judgements CPS will take as TRUE and then use Psycho Antilipsey Techniques to weeve a web around that report! They will LIE, Make False Documents, Use Trickery, and anything else that they feel they need to do to get that Child! This is why so many children in foster homes don’t need to be their. 80% of reports to cps are false and CPS does nothing to stop it. THEY LIE, THEY DO NOT HELP FAMILIES. They take children for federal funds, drug them to cope and control them, then abuse them!
    GO TO DHHS In Maine look at the Parent Handbook.

    MANDATED REPORTS NEVER REPORT OTHER MANDATED REPORTERS. IT’S ONLY ON THE COMMON PEOPLE AND CHILDREN!!

    T HE BIGGEST CHILD ABUSERS IN AMERICA IS CPS!

      1. It’s like when a CPS worker hands a kid a bag of M&M’s while asking, “what did mommy do to you?”  

        PSYCHO-ANTILIPSEY [psy-cho-anti-lip-sey]Is a technique of perception control management, that could be used by a social service agency against an individual, to create a false representation of that individual, or create an event that does not exist, for the purpose of wrongly influencing others.The process consists, of any number of methods or formulas already developed and borrowed from various disciplines and sub-disciplines, such as behavior science, psychological operations, psychological warfare, Platonian dialectics and nuero-linguistic programming.Formulas and or methods are used to manage the perception of an individuals image, speech, actions, reactions, or to change and control the perception of an event to influence an intended audience, for profit.A manufactured representation, of an individual could be fabricated and weaponized with propaganda at any time, without the knowledge of that individual. This is accomplished by creating a false representation to achieve the proper response, from a targeted audience the social service engineer’s objectives is designed to obtain.For example, PSYCHO-ANTILIPSEY could be used to manipulate a victim or an event, to control an outcome of an investigation or wrongly influence the judgment of a court case. 

        1. Here’s what I know from my own experience working in child protective services. I never had to ask a child what happened. They could not wait to tell me about what was going on in the home, if anything was. Maybe there are people who manipulate children, but I was not one of them. I also know the statistic, which has not changed in some time, that children are 5 times more likely to be hurt or killed in foster care than they are in their own homes. Knowing that, I believe removal of children should only be a last resort, when there are no other options to keep a child safe. Decisions for removals should not be made to cover one’s butt, but made when there are no other good options to protect the child. Are there bad workers in the system? I am sure there are, as there are in other agency or company. But there are a lot of good people that really try to help families to stabilize and then get out of their lives. They are the ones you don’t hear about, as they go quiety about doing their jobs to the best of their abilities.

          1. Yeah, I’ve heard about the good ones.  Haven’t met one yet but they keep telling me about them.   In my experience, CPS workers are more likely to get off on the power trip than actually do what’s right by kids.   

          2. And don’t worry, we would never expect a CPS Agent to speak the truth about what they do.  

          3. The statistics some people throw around here are misleading.  Children are far more likely to be abused or neglected in the home.  The reason THAT doesn’t show up in statistics is because child abuse in the home is almost always hidden and thus isn’t reported.  And in addition, foster homes are monitored more carefully than the Joneses’ down the street so abuse is more likely to be detected.
            People can make statistics say whatever they want: it doesn’t make it true. 

            Good article, Mr. Long.

        2. I do understand that you’re very angry about things that happened in your family, and hold DHHS to blame.

          But I Googled the term “psycho-antilepsey.” The search took me to a website run by the individual who coined the term.

          The word itself isn’t defined there, except as a label for social work practices that are not documented or really even described–there’s just a lot of vague and circular illogic. It’s described as something that “could be used by a social service agency.” No examples of specific dates, times, places, people in which the practices actually took place.

          Can you provide a definition? We can start with “psycho” which surely refers to something psychological. “Anti” generally means “against.” What does “lepsey” mean?

  9. As you can see below children in foster care are being sexual abused at alarming rates. Children taken from non-offending loving homes over someone’s suspecion, or cps psycho antilipsey techniques and formula’. “Psycho” being the key word here.
    Think of the shear number of medical professionals involved with those foster children reaping federal funds and NEVER reporting to authorities the sexual abuse. That warrents a report on their license! I don’t see their names published!
    Ask yourself why this article is not exposig the truth, both sides? Why are these so called Experts Not takeling CPS’s Abuses? All to creat an hysteria to get more reports to take more children for federal funds. To be given to PEDIPHIALS! What you think non of these experts aren’t PEDIPHIALS? Not on in America? 
    LOOK AT HOW MANY CHILDREN THEY MURDER IN CPS CARE!
    IMAGINE HAVING YOUR CHILD TAKEN FROM  YOU OVER SOMEONE’S FALSE REPORT PUT INTO A STRANGERS HOME, DRUGGED, RAPED, MURDERED!

    The
    National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect (NCCAN) in Washington
    .CPS- Physical
    Abuse (160) Sexual Abuse (112) Neglect (410) Medical Neglect (14) Fatalities
    (6.4)Parents- Physical Abuse (59) Sexual Abuse (13) Neglect (241) Medical
    Neglect (12) Fatalities (1.5)

    As you can see, children are abused far more in
    care than at home.
    CPS ARE THE ABUSERS. WRITE AN ARTICLE  ABOUT THAT!
    NO EXCUSE FOR CPS ABUSE! ZERO TOLERANCE!

  10. PROSECUTE FALSE REPORTING TO CPS, TO MANY PEOPLE ARE USING CPS TO BE VINDICTIVE, RETAILATORY, CAUSING INJURY TO CHILDREN.

    THE SYSTEM IS UNBALANCED, AND OUT OF CONTROL!

    EXPERTS I CALL ON YOU TO STOP CPS ABUSESE,  FOCUS ON STOPPING THEM FROM USING PSYCHO ANTILIPSEY TECHNIQUES! STOP THE EXPLOTATION OF FOSTERCHILDREN, TRAFFICING, AND SEXUAL, PHYSICIAL, MENTAL ABUSES OF CPS CARE!

    ONE FORMULA CPS USES IS THIS;
    MAKE THE LIE BIG, MAKE THE LIE SIMPLE, SAY THE LIE OFTEN, AND PEOPLE WILL BELIEVE THEY LIE ~~~ ADOLPH HITLER AKA CPS.

    WAKE UP PEOPLE YOUR CHILD COULD BE NEXT, YOUR GRANDCHILD, YOUR NEICE OR NEPHEW.
    GO TO YOUTUBE AND SEE IT FOR YOUR SELF, LOOK UP CPS CORRUPTION MURDERING OF CHILDREN IN CPS CARE!  PICTURES OF CHILDREN WHO LOOK LIKE ROAD KILL AS STATED BY ONE MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL OF A DEAD CHILD IN CPS CARE.

    GO TO LEGALLY KIDNAPPED, KIDJACKED, FIGHT CPS FOR HELP.

    PRESENTLY CPS IS TARGETING 20 AND 30 YEAR OLD SINGLE MOMS. PREDITORY AND THEY SHOULD BE PUT IN FRONT OF A GRAND JURY.

    GOVERNORS AROUND THIS COUNTRY ARE STARTING TO CALL FOR THEIR ATTORNEY GENERALS TO INVESTIGATE CPS CORRUPTION, FRAUD, STEALING CHILDREN AND DEFRAUDING THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT.

    DO YOUR HOMEWORK

  11. Children in CPS care stats from Washington:

    Sexual abuse in CPS care is 112 per 100000 childen Sexual Abuse in Parents care is 13 per 1000000 care!

    STOP CPS ABUSES NOW! STOP CORRUPT DHHS NOW! STOP LIEING EXPERTS NOW!

    THERES SOME STATS FOR YOUR WEBSITE! GO TO DHHS IN MAINE LOOK AT PARENTS HANDBOOK.
    SAVE AMERICAN CHILDREN, SAVE FOSTERCHILDREN. STOP CPS ABUSES NO EXCUSE! STOP THE SILENCE.

    WHISTLEBLOWERS WE NEED YOU. WRITE AN ARTICLE ANONYMOUSLY TO LEGALLY KIDNAPPED.

    IF YOU SEE CPS ABUSE REPORT IT, IF YOU SEE FOSTER CHILD BEING SEXUALY ABUSED BY CPS REPORT IT!
    IF YOU SEE A DOCTORS, JUDGES, LAW ENFORCEMENT, SCHOOL TEACHERS, DAYCARE CENTERS ABUSING CHILDREN REPORT IT!

    YOU WON’T BECAUSE MANDATED REPORTERS NEVER REPORT ON EACH OTHER!
    ONLY THE COMMON PEOPLE AND CHILDREN.
    WAKE UP

  12. The sexual abuse of children is pretty ugly stuff. My read of the commentary here suggests to me that we are looking for someone to blame and /or offload our fears on. If I was an adolescent who had been sexually abused, and chanced upon reading these posts about the topic, I would find little encouragement from the content, surely not enough wisdom and good sense to support me revealing let alone reporting. In my own experience of living for decades under the cone of silence, shame, fear, self-loathing and personal-social-community denial  that characterizes the deeper impact of sexual abuse, I find little in the way of ideas here that is of any help. For me framing up a witch hunt is not just not the same as figuring out effective interventions to stop this crime that has been going on forever, and unfortunately mostly at the hands of men in position of power, privilege and presumed authority over children. You want to start looking for solutions, look in that direction.      

    1. Roger, while I understand your point and fully support protecting kids from dangerous pedophiles, articles like this are not focused on such goals.  Instead, what we have here is an article that serves to create a sense of child abuse hysteria by using a horrible case as a springboard to create tougher mandated reporter laws in Maine.  Such laws have done nothing to protect kids, but rather increase the number of false reports, so that workers spend precious time and resources chasing shadows instead of investigating real cases of child abuse.  

      1. EXACTLY LK. I FOUND MORE ARTICLES ON TEACHERS AND SCHOOL OFFICIALS ABUSING CHIDREN AND USING CPS TO RETAILATE AGAINST PARENTS WHO COMPLAINED ABOUT IT TO PROTECT THEIR CHILD. DISGUSTING SYSTEM. BROKE, AND UNBALANCED.

  13. When I was teaching school a number of years ago I reported to DHHS a suspected case of child abuse….The next day the school’s guidance director came to see me and read the riot act….She wanted all reports to go thru her…..Fugedaboutit , I said….The law required me to report to them not to you…Teachers are the first line of defense in many cases of abuse…One guidance counselor was so disliked that no kids would go the his office that a couple of us teachers would ask kids just to drop by and see him once in a while….Poor lonely guy….

    1. Gee what was the guidence councilor doing to the children to cause that? There you go, theirs your flag!!!! They didn’t like him for a reason?????

  14. FYI, I am currently between jobs and have more time on my hands that I would like. You clearly feel strongly about your point of view, but don’t go around attacking people you don’t even know. When I was a child protective worker, I dealt with my clients honestly and fairly and after their cases had closed, if their cases reopened, they would request me to be assigned again as their worker. When I had children who told me about being abused in foster care, I moved them first, then I filed reports on foster parents, because I do not believe that the state should pay people to abuse children in their care. I do not believe in energy drinks for adults, much less for children. And from your rant, it appears to me that you are the one out of control. I hope you get the help you need. I sincerely do.

    1. Mimi2kool, you said “When I had children who told me about being abused in foster care…”  

      Could you please elaborate on that?  You make it sound common.  

      1. Any time it happens is too often, in my opinion. It had 3 times in the almost fifteen years I worked in child protection.

        1. My step-son was molested by a foster parent.  Right here in Maine.   The CPS Agent sent my wife a letter, then went on vacation for 2 weeks so that she couldn’t find out what happened.  

          1. I am sorry that this happened to you and your family. And it was wrong for them to not get back to you. If the worker was going on vacation, there still should have been someone assigned to communicate with you and your family. That would have been the right thing to do.

          2. He was removed because of his father.  I met her a couple years later.  The father was long gone.  She became pregnant with my daughter, and the worker was trying like hell to get her hooks into my daughter.  That did not happen.  I spent about $12,000 on a lawyer to make sure she could come home from the hospital.  Funny thing was, they never had a thing on me, but because I got angry at her for sitting on my couch, smiling and saying that they were probably going to take my baby right from the hospital, she used that to paint a picture of me as a violent and dangerous person.   CPS closed the case on my daughter when she was 2 weeks old.  Wife’s rights to her son were terminated four weeks later.  That’s how she spent the last week of her maternity leave from work.  Three days getting ripped apart in court by a sadistic social worker who simply didn’t want to loose her first TPR case. 

            10 years later, CPS contacts my wife out of the blue, saying we’re sorry but we may have been a little hasty when terminating your rights to your kid.  Her then 13 year old son wants to meet her, he was severely damaged from his time in foster care.  No better options like adoption because of high needs.  He was living in a group home run by Spurwink, taking seven different psychiatric meds at the same time, and will never have a chance at a normal life.

            Hopefully this will help you to understand my view.    

          3. I totally do. I am not saying that child protective workers are always right. I myself regularly clashed with a former colleague when I worked in Massachusetts. She would remove children from their parents for little or no reason according to agency standards. To the court’s credit, the children would be promptly returned to the parents. This ticked her off something fierce. I once asked her why she was a social worker, when it was very clear to me that she did not even like people. I referred to her amongst my peers as “The Anti-Social Worker”.

          4. I would refer to somebody like that as a baby-stealer.

            Sadly there are enough of them out there, that I would never even considering trusting a good one.

          5. I get that, I really do. But I didn’t run up that bill, so it is hard for me to accept paying it. Like any other profession, there are good, ethical people who want to do the right thing and help people. There are others who do nothing but abuse their authority. I could write a book about what I have seen, and maybe someday I will.

          6. If you’re aware of fraud, overzealous workers who unethically steal children, or anything like that you should spill your guts.  Preferably to the AG’s office, but it would be best to do it publicly because it makes them move faster.

          7. I cannot speak to what has happened in Maine DHHS cases because I have not worked for them. To pretend otherwise would be unethical. Believe me, I was one of the biggest whistleblowers when I worked in Massachusetts. It made me plenty of enemies, but I was always hated by all the right people.

  15. The article above cited the need for “A New Conversation”. We certainly have that on this page. By the way, the only references I could find online to “PSYCHO-ANTILIPSEY” were not from any psychology or research paper. I found one article, written by a reporter I never heard of for some small paper somewhere. I found other information about groups that put this term forward in their position papers, all of them parents involved with CPS. There are also YouTube videos about this. If this is real, I would like to see the objective, scholarly research on it. Otherwise, it sounds like something made up. I could be wrong, I have been wrong before. But I doubt it in this particular instance. I received a link below on Wikipedia, which everyone knows is such a reliable and researched source of material. NOT! The link did not lead to an article on the alleged syndrome.

    1. I bet you believe these numbers from Washington are made up too?
      Go to Legally Kidnapped/Kid jacked/ fight cps and DHHS in Maine blogspot for parents handbook. Protect yourselves and your children.

      These numbers come from The National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect (NCCAN) in
      Washington.

      CPS- Physical Abuse (160) Sexual Abuse (112) Neglect (410) Medical
      Neglect (14) Fatalities (6.4)

      Parents- Physical Abuse (59) Sexual Abuse (13)
      Neglect (241) Medical Neglect (12) Fatalities (1.5)

      As you can see, children are abused far more in care than at home.

      Cps uses trickery, lies, deception, manipulation, forgery, and anything else to get your child and abuse them.

      BELIEVE IT!!

      1. MIMI02KOOL
        Are you saying children are not abused in CPS care?? That those foster children never came to  you and complained or asked to go back home to their families where they were safe?

  16. Here is a link to Maine CPS Agents Admits Child Abuse in FosterCare. Maine is huge for it, but keeps it from the papers. Maine recieves an F for corruption.

    PLEASE come forward with your stories and whistleblow in CPS. Help change the system and save the children.

    http://legallykidnapped.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-former-maine-cps-agent-admits-to.htmlld

    Also on LK is an anonymous theory of the disapearance of baby alya reynolds. Must Read.  CPS was the involved and should be investigated.

    Yes we need a NEW Conversation! Shut down CPS.

  17. I hope that any statement about Maine CPS admitting child abuse in foster care is not based on any posts I have made here today. Because I did not work for Maine at the time I did CPS work, and I have never presented information here on or any other site that states otherwise. I just want to make sure we stick with facts vs. fiction.

    1. CPS Agents often take things out of context and utilize them to their advantage while destroying families.  Seems like others have learned from the best.

    2. Any failure to “expose” CPS is not due to fear on my part.I have not worked in the Maine system as of yet, and cannot speak directly to what does or does not happen here. This is very different from fearing retaliation.  FYI, I faced down a life-threatening illness a year ago, and there is very little that I fear. However, when it comes to issues of conscience, I will take a page from Cher. She said, ” I answer to two entities. One is God. The other is my own conscience.”

  18. Come into the light MIMI! Others have and are. They are coming in droves. We must protect the childen MIMI.  Does MIMI stand for mama in french? You the mama?   It’s OK MIMI, we know you are in a tough spot, cps is highly retaliatory and you are afraid.  Who wouldn’t be given the nations stats. They kill children.  Help us stop them MIMI.

    Help Expose the corrupt practices of CPS. 

  19. It was reported, just ask firecap, he was ridiculed and ignored. This isn’t about mandated reporters or new laws. This is about people who new something was not right and chose not to say anything or if they did it was ignored up the chain of command (aka covered up).  I imagine it was a wink and a nod about carlson and his issues.  PCHC, all the shelters, this Wellspring place, what was her comment. “I remember something about carlson and the kids I am not sure what ” He helped all these places raise funds, so they did a moral/financial cost benefit analysis and decided on carlson instead of the kids. To try to make this about mandated reporters is a diversion. Who knew what when, only the victims know that, perhaps they  should publish their  own “investigation”.

  20. There are 67 posts below.  23 are by “Legally kidnapped” and 14 are by hush55 together they make up 60% of the posts.  How is this productive?

  21. also because I would not support the lies that he and his trolls were doing, I got rape and death threat and they said they would call DCF on me….. Funny, how no one in Maine thinks it wrong to frame a woman by posting naked pictures of a child to help, someone most people feel (the father) is a pedophile

  22. all I know is this Lawyer in Portland stole my ID to frame a mother who reported abuse by the father and DHHS supported the lawyer posting naked pictures of the child and framing the mother ….. Mr Waxman is the lawyer that stole my ID, But DHHS support his sick crimes against people and forget the children

  23. You can tell something is common when organizations have a slang term for it.

    The Carlson types in public safety and education are often refered to by good cops as “eaglephiles”. They are a protected species within government and you can do a lot of time for taking one down. Alternatively, it can be a career or life ending experience.

    Prosecutors refer to the “BIDE bluff”, a term reportedly coined by a former AG. “Young man/young woman, your complaint of sexual misconduct is interfering with a major narcotics investigation by this agency. Drop it or you’ll be indicted for obstruction and your parents’ assets will be seized yada, yada, yada.”

    When an official says that a young member was fired after “failing POGO qual” everyone assumes this is some academy type job related evaluation. It is not. “POGO” is “put out or get out”. One Chief is currently under indictment for this…. there are several more ‘eagles”.

  24.  how about the fact if you report a suspicion of abuse, it does not matter if the person did it or not their life is over. Just the accusation these days is enough to ruin a
    persons life. You might as well shot them in the head. When it comes to child abuse there is NO innocent until PROVEN GUILTY. I would not report something unless I had solid
    proof. If that means investigating on my own so be it. I’m not ending someones life till I KNOW.

  25. Starting in Kindergarten, why not implement curriculum that begins the dialogue with children about child abuse, with a portion–not needing to be graphic–but at least touching upon sexually inappropriate adult conduct/contact with children? This is not sex-ed in the sense that starts in the middle school years with a focus on reproductive health, but rather educating children about what is unlawful adult behavior, and how to report it. We have taught kids not to go with a stranger no matter what the stranger says. Why can’t we teach children about how to protect themselves from inappropriate and unlawful conduct? The boundaries as the laws read are quite specific, and children should be taught that NO MATTER WHAT an adult says to justify his or her actions, the law has been broken if those boundaries are violated.

    Kids need to learn at an early age–because sex abuse can begin in the cradle–that they do not have to suffer in silence. Abusers usually are skilled manipulators, and often will make the child feel at fault or to blame, or he or she will leverage threats to ensure the victim’s silence. And without solid information a child’s sense that something is amiss may be twisted and confused by what the abuser is telling him or her. Ignorance is not bliss, and ignorance is one of the footholds a child sex offender will grope for and use to his or her advantage.

    Another foothold is opportunity. In order to perpetrate, the abuser must have the opportunity to be alone with the child. Kids who are passed around, who lack “mama bear” parents, and who are not attended to with diligence and care are more likely to be abused because there are more opportunities to do so. But even children who are well loved and from solid families can end up as victims. Parents, watch for adults who seem inordinately interested in your child, wanting to have special times alone with him or her. Watch for someone who is buying your child gifts….gifts often also buy silence. The bottom line is don’t enable an abuser by allowing your child to spend alone time with someone like Mr. Carlson, no matter how charismatic that person may be.

    And people, listen to your gut! We have instincts about these kinds of situations, and when it feels like something is wrong, usually there is something wrong. Where there is smoke, there is a fire as the saying goes, and especially adults in a position to observe kids who may be victims, take the extra moments to check in with that child. Whether it’s sex abuse of physical or emotional abuse of a child, it is never “OK”. When the people who should be protecting that child are not doing their job, the adage made famous by Hillary Clinton should come into play. “It takes a village to raise a child”. When you see something, hear something, know something, act on it. You may be the lifeline, the ONLY lifeline, that child has in the world!!

  26. This article misstates the mandate to report. Mandated reporting only pertains to information obtained in the scope of one’s profession, or if the victim is in the care of a mandated reporter. As a former group home manager, i was mandated to report any suspicion–including word of mouth comments–of abuse to the clients under my care. OTOH, there was no mandate to report rumors of someone beating their wife or a priest molesting children.

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