OLD TOWN, Maine – A 41-year-old Old Town woman who told police she was molested by a fellow traveler on a Greyhound Lines bus last month is going public with her story in an effort to help catch the suspect and to warn others.
The woman, whose name is being withheld because the Bangor Daily News does not identify victims, said this week that she wants to see security on Greyhound buses tightened up by requiring, among other things, that passengers be asked to show identification, as is required by some of the other bus lines that serve the region.
“What I’m afraid of is that other people have been abused, that other people have been assaulted, and that they have not felt comfortable making a report. I don‘t want anybody else to have to go through that,” she said in an interview Thursday evening.
“I would like to see [Greyhound do more in terms of] security. There’s security at airports. They look and see. They check you. [They require that passengers] show identification,” she said.
“The only way we are going to catch this man is [because we had to go through] customs” at the international border crossing at Buffalo, N.Y., where the accused molester would have been required to show identification, including a passport, she said.
“Normally [Greyhound drivers and terminal employees] don’t ask your name. They don’t ask you for identification. I don’t feel that just because you can’t afford to fly you should be penalized.”
The assault has been reported to Greyhound and the New York State Police. The New York State Police is working with the Department of Homeland Security in an effort to determine the identity of the man who assaulted her, Investigator James Hunt said this week. The suspect had not been identified as of Friday.
Hunt said that assault, thefts and other crimes are not uncommon nationally and that in his jurisdiction alone, there are at least two or three assault cases each year. They typically happen to bus, train and subway passengers while they are asleep, he said.
A quick Internet search turned up similar incidents in Pittsburgh, Pa., Louisiana and Kansas, to name a few.
A Greyhound spokesman on Friday expressed regret for what happened to the woman.
“We greatly apologize for this passenger’s travel experience,” Tim Stokes of Greyhound’s corporate headquarters in Dallas, Texas, said Friday. “The safety and security of our passengers is our core value and something we take very seriously.”
Stokes confirmed that the bus line’s ticket agents do not require that identification be shown, unless a credit card is used to purchase a ticket. He added that whether to ask for ID otherwise is up to the agent’s discretion.
“Sometimes we ask for identification if a passenger appears to be underage [for traveling alone],” he said.
He said that while the bus line does evaluate its processes annually, there is no plan to require that passengers show identification.
According to the victim, the incident happened on April 25 during a bus trip from Toronto, Ontario, where she had been visiting a friend, to Bangor.
During the trip, she said, the bus became very full and she wound up with a male seatmate whom she described as about 5 feet 7 inches tall, husky, dark skinned and with an accent. He told her his name was Ryan and that he was from South America. She also recalled that there were red blotches in the whites of his eyes and that he had no luggage.
She said the man attempted to befriend her at the international border crossing in Buffalo, N.Y., by telling her what to expect while going through customs.
The assault happened later in the trip, after she fell asleep after a brief stop in Syracuse, N.Y., she said.
“It was getting late and people were starting to fall asleep on the bus and the only thing I noticed was a screaming baby at the front, which is the reason I sat at the back of the bus,” she said. “And I stretched out and closed my eyes and started to fall asleep,” she said, adding that she placed her jacket on the armrest between his seat and hers to make sure she wouldn’t accidentally touch him. The assault happened after she dozed off.
“He reached over and he grabbed my left breast. He tried to stick his hands into my shirt and I pulled away from him. I was very shocked. I had fallen asleep so I was very startled,” she said, her anger about what happened evident on her face and in her voice.
“… Nobody appeared to be awake. There were people with ear buds in, I remember that.”
While she was still trying to figure out what to do, the man persisted.
“He grabbed my left shoulder and pulled me toward him and said, ‘Give me a kiss’ and tried to suck on my neck. And I took my right fist and I hit him and I said, ‘Don’t touch me’ and he said, ‘You are being rude.’” She put her backpack between her legs and his, moved as far away from him as she could and told him again not to touch her. She began watching highway signs to determine when the next stop might be.
The man still wouldn’t let up, she said.
“He tried to rub my back and I pushed him away and he fell asleep. He started snoring and I stayed awake all night and I waited,” she said. When the bus stopped in Newark, N.J., the driver turned on the lights. She said she grabbed her backpack and jumped up to get into line to get off.
“When I got off the bus, I did not look back. It was 6 something in the morning. I ran into the station. No police officer was in sight, none. I couldn’t find anybody that worked there. I did not even know which line I was supposed to get into to go to Maine,” she recalled.
She finally found someone to show her which line was for those traveling to Maine and she told the people in the line what happened to her. When she reboarded, she sat at the front of the bus and next to a woman.
The woman said Thursday that she didn’t immediately report the incident to the bus driver because he had told passengers that because of post-9/11 security measures, no one was allowed to approach him or go beyond a certain seat.
“He made it very clear that if there were problems, you’d be off the bus,” she said. She said she needed to get back to Maine.
She eventually told a bus driver in Boston, who asked her, “‘For real?’ and I said, ‘Yes’ and that I hit him [the alleged assaulter]. And he said, ‘Did you report it to the police?’ and I said, ‘There were none in sight.’”
The day after she returned home, she reported the incident to Greyhound and called Old Town police, who referred her to police in New York, she said. She also has hired an attorney.
Investigator Hunt said that the investigation indicates that the man provided her “misleading” information as a way to hide his identity. There was no passenger named Ryan on the bus, according to information he received from the Department of Homeland Security.
Since reporting the incident to Greyhound, she has been contacted by one of the company’s insurance adjusters.
“She said they felt for me but there was nothing they could do,” she said. She said the adjuster told her she should have reported the assault to a Greyhound employee. The woman alleges that when she said she planned to go to the media, the adjuster said that “would not be beneficial.”
Stokes recommended that riders inform Greyhound staff immediately in the event of assaults and other problems.
“If a passenger does happen to witness or be involved with any type of incident they are concerned with while riding Greyhound, we ask that they immediately notify their driver or any staff members at our locations,” he said. “All drivers and employees are highly trained to provide the safest travel experience for all of our passengers.”
Asked what she would do differently in the future, the Old Town woman said she would sit at the front of the bus, regardless of screaming babies, and that she would try to stay awake.
She also said she would bring mace, a knife or some other means of defending herself.
That, however, is prohibited by Greyhound.



Greyhound requires i d to be shown.
Really?
“We greatly apologize for this passenger’s travel experience,” Tim Stokes of Greyhound’s corporate headquarters in Dallas, Texas, said Friday. “The safety and security of our passengers is our core value and something we take very seriously.”Stokes confirmed that the bus line’s ticket agents do not require that identification be shown, unless a credit card is used to purchase a ticket. He added that whether to ask for ID otherwise is up to the agent’s discretion.
After 911 they started asking for i ds before getting on bus. Tim stokes is wrong
…”up to the agent’s discretion.”
Thankfully for you, the driver you have experienced is conscientious enough to check at his own “discretion.” That does not, however, mean that “Greyhound requires ID’s be shown.”
Right, but after 911 they required everyone to show i d before getting on bus. Why did they change that policy. Curious
I have never been asked other than credit card. though I have never had a problem in talking to a driver. Surprising she did not have a cell phone. I know on some routes when they are packed it can be kind of scary no matter if you are a female or male I have seen situations where the driver has threatened to put 3 or 4 drunks off. I was holding my breath, nothing serious happened.
It is odd because after 911 they started requiring passengers to show them. Must have stopped
I’d say everyone has a right to defend themselves, but it’s not really true anymore.
Thank you for speaking out about your experience, it may help another woman. I am sorry this happened to you.
She said she needed to get back to Maine.
She should have reported it to the driver or called 911 as soon as she got off the bus in Newark. I hope they can find the guy before he rapes some woman (or child).
I don’t care how late it was and everyone was asleep, I would have gotten out of my seat and gone up the driver. No one should ever be afraid of some creepy man or woman.
Greyhound attracts a pretty sketchy crowd, Concord is the way to go. Too bad they don’t go all the way down to NYC.
Are you serious
Maybe if these perverts all switched to Concord in Boston they would leave others alone…….
I know when i by a ticket for concord coach in Augusta they ask for my id all the time
Greyhound was asking at one point. I am wondering if this is part of why they moved it to Dysarts. Because yesterday i ate lunch there and they are asking for ids
This women should have spoken up at the time of the assault. Someone on that bus had a cell phone to call 911 and this perp would have been removed and she could have filed a report right then. I bet they have a photo of this dude if he went thru customs.
I don’t but i would say the move was to save money this past year they have made lots of moves like that . On the id all they want to know if the name on the ticket matchs the person thats buying the ticket i guess
It’s up to each individual agent whether they ask for ID or not.
No. This wasn’t the fault of Greyhound. I see no reason why they should offer the woman compensation. Greyhound does not need to institute this kind of identification check. If someone behaves badly, you move out of harms way immediately. You go to the bus driver.
This was a horrible experience. But we have to get back to basic common sense here about travelling and being in public places. If there is a situation that you are uncomfortable with, you immediately remove yourself from the situation whatever it takes. If you’re sitting in the aisle seat you get out of your seat. Yell out. Go to the bus driver. When the passengers discharged in New Jersey, she did not talk to the bus driver then.
It is unbelievable that this woman did not get out of her seat and run to the front of the bus, or wake another passenger. Her daughter carried a knife in her bra? I’m glad they confiscated the knife. There is nothing like someone with no common sense, and exaggerated fear, carrying a weapon.
No one should ever experience a personal violation but this does not excuse not taking responsibility for your own safety, or using common sense. Women must learn as girls, (this is 2012 – I thought this was a done deal), to take actions for their own safety. That “being good,” is not what you do if you believe you are in danger. How bizarre it is that she continued to refer to the man as the “gentleman.”
One of my childhood friends had an experience that shows that girls should not be taught to be so “good.” She was 13 at the time. The man saw her waiting for a bus, told her that he was an artist, and wanted to draw her picture. He waited while the girl telephoned her mother to ask if it was all right. He waited outside the public telephone booth while she called. He had shown her identification – his driver’s license. Her mother told her it was okay. But then, he had to draw the picture somewhere more private, and he took her to a public parking garage. Figuring that there would be people around, the girl went with him. There were no people around, when he moved to molest her, she, at 13, ran away as fast as she could, feeling very stupid and very lucky.
If this woman was more afraid of the bus driver than this man who was assaulting her, then something is seriously wrong with her thought processes. I could understand if she was too terrified to do anything while the man was awake, but she hit him. And, even when the man fell asleep, the woman did not take the most obvious and sensible actions. She was at first, a victim, but then she chose to stay a victim.
The same kind of incident could happen in a public library, restaurants, etc., and has. Even when girls and women react immediately, and get help immediately, the experience of women I know has been that they are told to shrug it off. And, 100% of the time nothing more was done to the perpetrator. That they get no sense that they should do other than “try to forget about it.”
But don’t just sit there. And don’t try to take on an aggressor unless you are trained to do so with great effectiveness.
lets see if you feel that way when its your daughter getting molested.there is no reason not to require id from them.
I have to say I agree with Pointaway. Nothing precludes reporting a serious crime in any situation. If my daughter handled this situation like that I would be upset. This also brings to mind an incident an acquaintance once told me where he got accused on an airplane of sexual assault similiar to this by a women next to him. The woman was so drunk she wasn’t making sense to the authorities and they let him go on his way. The pilot told him he saw this happening about once a month. Too bad the above woman waited so long to report this. I would have to suspect her credibility at this point it is sad to say.
Even with a name, nothing is done. The act has taken place. The pain you have caused with your comment has a better chance of suffering action by a moderator than bus passenger identification would serve to prevent this behavior, change the way in which authorities handle such offenses, or heal the pain of a molestation.
you don’t let some one touch you and just let it happen
The Driver will protect you if he or he knows that there is a problem
We have a pair of lungs – USE THEM!
Got something beside you? Whack him over the head with it and get out! Drive a shoe (or fist) between his legs and buy some time to get yourself up to the bus driver.
There’s no reason why anyone should have this happen in a bus full of people. None.
I agree. In this day and age, yelling would have brought it to the attention of other men on the bus who then would have tackled the SOB and the driver would have contacted local police.
It is something that most definately should not have happened, saying that I can not imagine anyone just sitting on a bus and not saying anything. You have to take responsibility for safeguarding yourself and that means doing whatever you have to do (AT THE TIME) to stop the attack and make known an attack has happened. Unfortunately waiting and saying something later not only makes it difficult for justice to be served it makes one question why someone would wait to say anything.
Unfortunately, this has happened more than once on a Greyhound bus. Parents beware.
Parents – teach your children. Another story – a friend of mine was 10 years old and at the movies with her friend. An elderly man stuck his hand under her leg. She was frozen with fear at first but then grabbed her friend moved away. She did not go to report the man, as she was sure she would be told that she was mistaken. It was just an old man. He was wearing a suit. She had been taught to be “nice.”
If anything is done, all that will be accomplished will be confiscation of objects that one can use to defend oneself.
Also, a feel good, happy attitude of the Government of “See how safe we have made it for you!”.
BDN doesn’t identify victims, eh? It seems that hasn’t been the case in the past.
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Not to mention the shame victims feel after abuse. Many victims/survivors feel very ashamed or embarrassed and it’s no wonder seeing all the comments blaming the wrong person here. It is definitely possible and understandable that she didn’t scream or do the various things other posters have said they would do.
Well shame on the posters that shame the victim! The only thing wrong that happened was the sexual abuse. The only person who did wrong was the man who perpetrated that abuse.
I would have screamed like a banshee and moved to another seat, or told the bus driver. This is a good example why you never buy strange men doughnuts :/
I must say that I am surprised at the lack of security. I presumed that trains and buses had to use similar security procedures as airports. This definitely needs to change immediately.l
So they would half to do a back ground check on all people getting on an off the buses
Do you think the airlines do background checks on everyone who flies? Just institute the same procedures as the airlines have with ID check-ins, sharing of “Do not Fly List” names, etc.
I don’t think there computers could handle that an that do not fly list is not right . What would you do if your name was on that list an your name was on that list an you have done nothing wrong. Now if that was the first time that person did some thing like this than how would his name be on that list ?
I was simply stating it as an example. And, this man may not have been caught, but it is not the first time he has tried this type of thing — he gave a false name, and he was way too persistent. If their computers are not up-to-date, they should be and immediately. We have spent millions of dollars on security.
So if h’s never been cough than how could they put him on a list with no name ? There computers are diffrent than the no fly list
As I stated twice, the “Do Not Fly List” was just an example. The fact is that if procedures were in place, they could have identified him. In my opinion, we should have safety procedures in place for all travel.
I feel bad that she went through this..however, if it was me he would have a black eye, a face full of mace and my boyfriend waiting when the bus stopped. Everyone on the bus would have heard me scream. I certainly couldn’t have sat in that seat quiety. It is very unfortunate that women sometimes feel like they can’t speak up, ask for help or cause a commotion.
I am sorry for this woman’s experience. I used to “go greyhound” quite a bit when I was younger and it was not uncommon to find one’s self sitting with some sort of perv; usually drunk or high. It was even worse when they weren’t. Creepier anyway.
After reading the story a couple of times I still don’t understand why the woman didn’t just get up and tell the driver, or start screaming, or something. But I wasn’t there so I don’t know what her reasoning was. I do agree though that traveling by bus, no matter which carrier, can be daunting when having to deal with the terminals. They are for the most part abhorrent. No directions, little staff or rude to the point of should be fired. No information available to those who are not familiar with the station. And often very little real security.
As for this woman’s assertion that more “homeland security” would have helped her situation, I just don’t see it. On her trip, apparently the perv obviously knew they would be going through customs. It did not seem to make any difference. I am a bit conflicted about requiring ID, I don’t like the idea of yet another freedom being chipped away at. In the past 10yrs or so I was always asked for ID, I guess because I used a debit card. But what’s to say that were I using cash that the cash wasn’t stolen? Doesn’t make much sense, but now days not much does. The illusion of security.
I think the thing we have to remember, especially as women, is that you don’t wait for someone to come to your rescue. Take responsibility for yourself, fight back when you can, and for God’s sake don’t keep quiet.
BTW, if the authorities really wanted to solve this case all they would have to do is look at the security tapes from the terminals, or customs. It is a pretty simple solve. At least the putting a face to the crime part.
Why didn’t you just excuse yourself, walk down the aisle and tell the driver? He would have pulled over and tossed Don Juan out.
Or, just let out one of the most horrifying yells your system could muster.
Never mind ID cards? pepper spray, and – a knife? Shout, scream, yell. In today’s climate, passengers are quick to respond, and the pilot, or driver, will react, too.
The idea that this event indicates the need for more “security” is nonsense. Requiring passengers to show ID would have prevented nothing. We don’t need a police officer on every bus.
This isn’t “blaming the victim” but she needs to be realistic and not blame everyone else. She could have told the driver. She could have told other passengers. She could have screamed. She could have dialed 911. If you want to wait a day and call the police, that’s fine, but don’t expect much recourse and don’t point fingers.
Can’t believe all the people saying that they would have done something differently.
Fight, flee, or freeze.
Stands to reason 1/3 of people will freeze in such a scary and traumatic situation. You only have instincts in a situation like this. And after an event like that, her instincts have changed.
Good for her to tell her story and I hope she gets justice.
Fight, flight, flee, faint, or freeze. The primitive part of our brain. The advanced logical thinking part takes too long.
Actually, during a rush of adrenaline, you don’t have much control over your thought process or how logical you’re acting.
This is propaganda to justify TSA and Homeland Security to institute police state measures internally with passports, checkpoints, and spot searches and interrogations. Everytime they need to take away more Constitutional Rights they wheel out some “victim” with a story of how we should give up more rights for our own safety. The founding fathers are spinning in their graves.
That was exactly my thought!
Greyhound and other bus lines are the last remaining form of mass transportation without onerous, ridiculous, paranoid, and abusive searches, ID checks, and interrogations in the name of “security”.
Gee, nobody matches the description of this guy named “Ryan,” who of course has never been found, no Greyhound employees were around, the woman didn’t yell or do anything to seek help at the moment, she SAID she “hit him,” and she waited a month to report it — the smell of fish is overpowering here (esp. the fact that she didn’t alert one other person on the bus or seek assistance because she was afraid of “waking people up” — give me a break!).
You watch, we’ll soon see more reports like these. The days of anonymously taking a Greyhound to escape an abusive spouse (the way Julia Roberts did in that movie) or to start over somewhere or to just travel without the TSA goonsquad hassle will soon come to an end. How dare Americans think they can travel freely within their own country — do they think this is still a free country or something?
I agree with sassyfrazz, cause a scene however you can. Most people don’t know that Greyhound buses have a GPS system that has can alert authorities of an accident and drivers either have a company or personal cell phone to call 911. If your credit card is signed when you use it for purchases, some of the credit card companies will not let companies check for ID’s. Instead of signing your credit card, write “Check ID” in the signature block. That forces companies to check ID’s (that is if the employee bothers to look for the signature). The other kink in the checking of ID procedures are people can purchase tickets on-line and at a kiosk at must company owned terminals. You will find that there are many good people riding buses that will come to someone’s rescue. Be bold but be safe.
Why on earth did she not walk up the aisle to the driver immediately???
Greyhound, Condord, Bonaza, Peter Pan and any Trailways……
a bus is a bus and passaengers are passengers and people are people….
The bus has brakes and if the driver is aware of a problem, the bus will come to a stop and that person would have been removed from the bus……
Do not ever not say anything if you are uncomfortable, you are important to any company.
STOP doing the blame thing, we have to do what is possible to stop what is happening to us at the time that it happens. No one is to blame if we don’t protect ourselves.
You really blame Greyhound, if that person was on a Concord Bus, he would not have touched this woman???????? Does the color prevent problems more than blue.
The reason why the bus line reacted the way that they did was because she did not treat the assault like it was a big deal. All the women I know would unleash holy hell if a man tried to grope them. She is in her 40`s. She should know what sexual assault is. She just endured it until it was time to get off the bus. If she would have made a big scene right then and there, the bus driver would have been forced to stop the vehicle. She decided to keep a low-profile. Why?
She could have contacted the authorities then and there with the information on the man (911 works for free on pay phones). It`s sexual assaut. Yeah. It`s a big deal, ladies. Instead, she chose to wait until she got home, and waited an entire day to notify them.
There is just too much that does not add up here. She was being far too quiet. Why? You be the judge…
The Dept. of “Homeland Security” is conducting one of its false flag ops — pretty soon we’ll have to go through checkpoints, open our suitcases, and submit to a search to ride the hound — none of which has to do with “security,” only with keeping the population in check by intimidation and fear while our Constitution is used as toilet paper.
Was she dressed seductively??
“I would like to see [Greyhound do more in terms of] security. There’s security at airports. They look and see. They check you. [They require that passengers] show identification,” she said.______________________________________________________________
So we can’t demand id for voting, but she wants id to go on a bus? Gee, where are the libs screaming about how many people have no id, how unfair this is…..discriminates against the poor and disenfranchised??