Anderson Cooper very cautiously came out of the closet on TV’s Take Out the Trash Day in an email to longtime pal/Daily Beast columnist-blogger Andrew Sullivan.

“The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud,” Cooper said in the email, which Sullivan said he had Cooper’s permission to share with the world.

Cooper’s announcement appears to have been carefully, cautiously timed: The day before a national holiday — known in the TV industry as Take Out the Trash Day — is when potentially hot-and-maybe-not-in-a-good-way news is unveiled, in hopes that lots of people are on vacation and won’t notice. (With Independence Day falling on a Wednesday this year, both Monday and Tuesday are considered Take Out the Trash Days.)

In its coverage of the news, ABC, where Cooper worked as a “Mole” host and news correspondent before moving to cable, noted that “the 45-year-old CNN journalist has dodged questions about his sexuality in the public eye.”

Sullivan explained in his Monday morning post that he got in touch with Cooper for “reasons that are probably obvious to most”: Entertainment Weekly just published an article called “The New Art of Coming Out: How Gay Stars Are Now Carefully — and Surprisingly — Going Public About Their Private Lives.”

In response, Cooper dashed off one of those email responses to a pal that began: “Andrew, as you know, the issue you raise is one that I’ve thought about for years. Even though my job puts me in the public eye, I have tried to maintain some level of privacy in my life. Part of that has been for purely personal reasons. I think most people want some privacy for themselves and the people they are close to.

“But I’ve also wanted to retain some privacy for professional reasons,” continued Cooper, whose email was starting to quack a lot like a news release.

“Since I started as a reporter in war zones 20 years ago, I’ve often found myself in some very dangerous places. For my safety and the safety of those I work with, I try to blend in as much as possible, and prefer to stick to my job of telling other people’s stories, and not my own. I have found that sometimes the less an interview subject knows about me, the better I can safely and effectively do my job as a journalist.

“I’ve always believed that who a reporter votes for, what religion they are, who they love, should not be something they have to discuss publicly,” Cooper continued.

“As long as a journalist shows fairness and honesty in his or her work, their private life shouldn’t matter. I’ve stuck to those principles for my entire professional career, even when I’ve been directly asked ‘the gay question,’ which happens occasionally.”

Cooper also noted that he did not address “my sexual orientation” in the memoir he wrote several years ago, “because it was a book focused on war, disasters, loss and survival. I didn’t set out to write about other aspects of my life.”

(That Entertainment Weekly article mentioned the then-still-not-saying Cooper just once, noting that the TV critic for the New York Times had “dared to belittle Anderson Cooper during the first week of his syndicated talk show, complaining that ‘the one thing he hasn’t done yet — and the lacuna grows more obvious and awkward with each show — is talk about his love life. It’s hard to see how he can continue to leave that out selectively.’ ”

Of course, Cooper’s sexual orientation has been the subject of debate for years, because, by gum, this is America and that’s how we roll.

In 2005, he told New York Magazine: “I understand why people might be interested. But I just don’t talk about my personal life.” In 2007, Out magazine featured Cooper’s face on the cover of its “Glass Closet” issue.

Cooper’s announcement came on TV’s Take Out the Trash Day, when industry suits who have not developed a hit series in the past 18 months generally begin to tremble at 5 p.m. — the witching hour when those “esteemed executive is leaving to pursue other interests” news releases are e-mailed with the expectation that (a) many reporters already have left to get a head start on their holiday revelry; or (b) the news will be reported in poorly read holiday editions.

Way back in 2005, for instance, ABC announced the evening before Thanksgiving that it had canceled J.J. Abrams’s “Alias,” which was then the longest-running unsuccessful prime-time series on television.

More recently, Fox announced the Friday before the Labor Day weekend that “American Idol” judge Kara DioGuardi had “decided” to leave the country’s most popular television show to return to obscurity.

And, also probably not a coincidence, Cooper was not scheduled to appear live on either of his two TV shows Monday.

His daytime syndicated show is in repeats until Sept. 10. Meanwhile, CNN said Monday afternoon that Cooper was out of the country on assignment for CBS’s “60 Minutes” and that Ashleigh Banfield would anchor “AC360” that night.

Coming out of the closet has historically been considered a dicey move for on-air talent — even news talent. But Cooper’s got little to lose.

In syndication, “Anderson” concluded its season with ratings that put Cooper ahead of Wendy Williams and Nate Berkus but behind Kelly Ripa, Maury Povich, Ellen DeGeneres, Jerry Springer and Rachael Ray. Back in February, when “Anderson” celebrated its 100th episode, the Associated Press noted there was some question whether “Anderson” would have survived to another season were it not for the distribution might of its syndicator, Telepictures Productions.

Meanwhile, Cooper’s CNN show had a disastrous first quarter, averaging a mere 472,000 viewers, in keeping with CNN’s worst quarter, ratings-wise, in more than two decades.

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  1. Everybody already knew this.  Maybe he feels safe to come out the closet now that Obama has weighed in.  Can we expect wedding bells for Mr. Cooper  and  Ben Maisani in the near future?

      1.  Thanks Buz, you made my day,I learned a new term today and it sounds a lot better than homophobic. It sounds like this is the case for outdoor man. I have known gay people in the past and I honestly didn’t know they were (not that it matters) I guess I don’t have a gaydar like outdoorman.

        1. I never heard of gaydar but have known AC was gay for years. Not sure why it’s a news story now. Since his ratings are so poor, maybe it’s an attempt to get some publicity but after this 15 minutes of increased fame has passed, he’ll undoubtedly go back to being just another anchor of a mediocre pseudo news show pretending to be unbiased. Or maybe he’ll release another shocking announcement, that’s he’s a dem and has all the typical liberal biases and they just MIGHT be reflected in the way he covers news!

    1. Yeah kinda like looking at a uneducated numb@ss and just knowing  they’re ignorant and numb.

  2. So what?  Boston has had a news anchor for years that everyone has known is gay. Non issue, who cares, none of our business. The only personal info he talks of is that he commutes from Maine where he lives on the coast with his partner and about 10 dogs.

      1. It shouldn’t matter, but how often do heterosexual news anchors invoke their spouses casually during stories? It isn’t that noticeable if you aren’t paying attention, but it happens often. 

    1. Oh it matters to people, it validates homosexuals aberrant lifestyle.  Homosexuals are always seeking acceptance and having a “celebrity”  come out makes them feel extra special and part of the latest happening.

      1. No, it proves that people like you are wrong. It proves that gay people are just like the rest of us. It proves what you’re spewing is nothing but ignorance and misinformation.

          1. His rhetoric sounds like the “Unmaking of a Gay” or “Recovering Homosexual” handbook. Maybe that is how it involves or affects him?

      2. Really now, what is wrong with being gay? We aren’t defective, we’re just different. More importantly, we are different in a way that doesn’t impact how we do our jobs.

        Cooper simply didn’t address the issue for years, because he is a journalist. His reasons for coming out now? What he has stated is that he didn’t want to be seen as ashamed of his sexual orientation.

        And there truly is no reason to be ashamed of what you are, as long as you live in love and truth, and find supportive happiness with others.

        1. What is wrong with being gay ? Not a thing. But why do you that are -feel so compelled to broadcast it all over the place–like i said before big deal -who cares –was much quieter when you peeps lived in the closets–and no body cared then either–get over it !

          1. Hmmmm….do you feel the need to “broadcast” your heterosexuality to everyone? Do you “keep it in the closet” or do you walk down the street arm in arm with the person you care about (that is if you have someone in your life) and maybe kiss them or play grab *** with them? Just wondering if you practice what you preach?

          2. Well we all know that Heterosexual people and non-heterosexual people are treated exactly the same……right?   R I G H T.   pfffffffffft

          3. Not sure what your point is…my post was in response to a post that said the following,

            “….But why do you that are -feel so compelled to broadcast it all over the place–like i said before big deal -who cares –was much quieter when you peeps lived in the closets–and no body cared then either–get over it !”

          4. My point was to add to your point – that clearly hetero and non-hetero people are treated differently that’s all.  :)

          5. Fair enough…sometimes it is very diffecult to follow the comments and comments on comments. Have a great evening and a Happy 4th of July! :)

          6. Well, as far as “was much quieter when you peeps lived in the closets”… People DID care. People had all sorts of misconceptions about “the gays”; what they looked like, what kind of jobs they held, where they must live, etc.

            While things might have ‘been much quieter’, we were quietly being made to live in fear and isolation of ourselves; a gay man or lesbian woman would be terrified that their sexual orientation might be found out, for it could affect their job, their ability to rent an apartment, and especially their relationship with their family. Truly, living in the closet is no way that any free person should be made to live.As Harvey Milk famously said in the late 70’s… 

            Gay brothers and sisters,… You must come out. Come out… to your parents… I know that it is hard and will hurt them but think about how they will hurt you in the voting booth! Come out to your relatives… come out to your friends… if indeed they are your friends. Come out to your neighbors… to your fellow workers… to the people who work where you eat and shop… come out only to the people you know, and who know you…. once and for all, break down the myths, destroy the lies and distortions. For your sake. For their sake. For the sake of the youngsters who are becoming scared by the votes from Dade to Eugene.

            So while you may wonder aloud, “why do you feel so compelled to broadcast it all over the place,” the reality is that it is extremely important for successful, notable figures to be honest about their sexual orientation when asked, especially so that young adults who are struggling with this issue see that being gay or lesbian is simply a difference— not a deficiency— to their ability to follow their dreams whatever they may be.

            All that said, it’s not Anderson Cooper who is making a big deal out of this, it is the media. Cooper simply answered an email from a columnist in honesty.

      3. Dateline 1959 Mississippi:

        “Oh it matters to people, it validates Negro’s aberrant lifestyle. Negros are always seeking acceptance and having a light skinned rock-and-roller (like Chubby Checker) admit publicly he is black makes them feel extra special and part of the latest happening.”

        In 2012, I find your comment reprehensible and somewhat scary.

        ….and I CAN compare the two issues….and I did!

        1. You cannot compare the issue of a persons skin color to someone who claims that want to have sex with someone of their same sex.  Nature created male and female for the purpose of procreation.  There are males and females who  choose not too have children, couples who are infertile and an elderly couple past the child bearing years, but their plumbing fits where it’s suppose to.   I stand by every word I wrote, sorry if it hurts your feelings, but love is more than feelings and emotions.

      4. Actually Anderson kept this secret because as a journalist he holds strong convictions not to be te story himslef.  As such he has avoided questions about his family life, his religious beliefs and who he loves.  This is laudable and reminds me of what journalism was like before the infotainment crisis we find ourselves in.

        His rationale for coming out was similarly admirable.  He came to the point where he knew that standing up and being counted and visible outweighed his prior position.  For the million gay children out there, he wanted to send the message that it is okay to be who you are; that there is nothing to hide.

        Navigating that delicate balance requires courage and moral conviction and we ought to applaud those rare moments when anyone in the public eye exhibits this kind of virtue; regardless of whether we agree with them or not. 

      5. As a proud gay man from Fayette Maine I can tell you that I don’t give a rats behind about your acceptance or general acceptance anywhere that I have to share the air with people that promote the level of ignorance your comment suggests.
        What goes on in your bedroom is your business; as is whatever goes on in mine, my business. It absolutely bewilders me how allegedly straight people can be so intrigued by sexuality that they abhor.

    1. I’m sorry but the Jesus that I learned about would give him a hug and say that he is proud of staying true to himself. He may not agree but he would love him not an inch less. 

    2.  How about you making Jesus cry for being a bigot and passing judgement on someone else.

      1. Thank you for your support, 1964, but I believe CV is right, wolfndeer is just being sarcastic.

  3. Like this is a shock. This is something that many it seems have understood for years. I myself had that feeling. Now what most understood is now out in the open. Thats the only difference.

  4. Meanwhile, Cooper’s CNN show had a disastrous first quarter, averaging a
    mere 472,000 viewers, in keeping with CNN’s worst quarter,
    ratings-wise, in more than two decades. Sounds like a desperate attempt to improve viewer ratings? FAIL.

  5. If he couldn’t be “more happy and proud,” then why did he not answer the questions directly in years past?  Maybe he looks forward to a possible double wedding in ME with Barney and company?  The voters are smarter than to allow that to happen!

    1. What on earth is so wrong about being gay? Seriously, what affect does it have on your life that you obsess so much on the happiness of others?

      1. The answer is really very sad, CV, homophobia is a mental disorder.  Anti-gays are not well.

    2. He has never hidden the facts of his life,  just tried to maintain a certain level of personal privacy. The fact that he is gay should  not and does not affect the way he does his job.

      1.  I have to agree with you. If  these people needed a lifesaving surgery would it matter if the doctor was gay? I bet it wouldn’t!

    3. The voters in Maine are smarter than that. They will put an end to discrimination this Fall. That being said, I agree he should not have dodged the question for so many years. Let’s be realistic here. His coming out has nothing to do with our upcoming referendum. It’s about ratings. The article mentioned his dismal ratings; now he can blame the hatemongering religious right republicans. It certainly couldn’t be that he is a has been. I’m a gay bleeding heart Democrat; and it pains me to throw you this bone, but right is right

  6. Oh Hey, thank you Bangor Daily News.  Big News someone ELSE in Hollywood is gay.  Big Shocker.  Don’t know how I got through without knowing this man’s sexuality.  Please!!! Stick to our local issues.  There is enough to talk about in Maine without this nonsense.

    1. Yeah stick to the ‘local issues’ because we all know national issues never affect this state….

    2. Im betting we sit on opposite sides of the table, but I concur. No ones business and certainly not newsworthy.

  7. I’m sure there must have been one person in the universe who did not know Cooper was gay.  What’s next? Will he cop to being a Democrat?

  8. Why hasn’t Bishop Malone weighed in on Anderson Cooper yet? Is he too busy packing for Buffalo? Those who demonize gays–like Rick Santorum, who has repeatedly stated the gay marriage would somehow undermine his own marriage–are the persons one should really worry about.  Their sanctimonious intolerance is pathetic. 

    1. Or is the bishop too busy once again poisoning our political process and trying to throw another election?

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