When Thea Clara Spyer died, she left behind her partner and love of 42 years, Edith Windsor. The loss in 2009 hit Windsor hard, and the New Yorker suffered a heart attack a month after her partner’s death. While still recovering and mourning, she learned she had to pay $363,053 in federal estate taxes on her inheritance. She was, essentially, being required to pay for the loss of her soul mate — because, even though the state of New York recognized their marriage, the federal government didn’t.

Who here thinks it’s not discriminatory for the federal government to look at married same-sex couples and deny them the 1,138 marital-related benefits, rights and privileges that flow from federal law? Under Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act, that’s exactly what the federal government is doing: prejudicing treatment based on couples’ sexual orientation. The small but weighty part of the law passed by Congress in 1996 violates the constitutional guarantee of equal protection by requiring the federal government to exclude legally married gay couples from the benefits and burdens accorded all other married people.

In October, Windsor won a key fight when the Second U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals ruled in her favor and upheld a previous district court decision that Section 3 of DOMA violates the Constitution. The U.S. Supreme Court will now examine the constitutionality of Section 3 when it hears the case of U.S. v. Windsor this term. Section 3 — which defines marriage as “only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife” and defines spouse as only “a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or wife” — excludes a group of people from being able to take full advantage of the right to marry. Throw it out.

If the Supreme Court deems Section 3 unconstitutional, it will not require all states to allow same-sex couples to marry. But in states that have legalized same-sex marriage, such as Maine, it would require the federal government to respect their law. The federal government could then provide Social Security survivor benefits to a man who lost his gay partner, accept joint federal tax returns filed by married gay couples, provide pensions to the surviving spouses of federal employees, allow spouses to take family medical leave, grant military spouses support and benefits and, most importantly, stop treating gay married couples as unequal. The Supreme Court case does not challenge Section 2 of DOMA, which says states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages that are lawful in other states.

The government frequently draws lines to distinguish legal benefits for certain groups of people, but it needs a reason to do so. In 1996, states didn’t have protections for same-sex couples. Now, support has grown, and nine states plus the District of Columbia have legalized gay marriage. The court must evaluate why, in those states where gay marriage is now legal, the federal government is separating out married same-sex couples and treating them differently from all married couples.

It cannot use a defense that relies on morality, as DOMA supporters from the U.S. House Judiciary Committee did in 1996 when they said the law would protect “the traditional moral teachings reflected in heterosexual-only marriage laws.” In floor debate about DOMA, members of Congress called homosexuality “immoral,” “depraved” and “an attack upon God’s principles.” Morality, however, cannot be used as a justification for disliking a group of people and setting laws that oppress them. Cities, for example, cannot deny a permit for a health facility because they don’t like the idea of having people with illnesses nearby. This country promises equal protection. As shown by the 2003 Supreme Court decision in Lawrence v. Texas that consensual and private homosexual sex is protected by the Constitution, a traditional way of doing things is not necessarily grounds for continuing them.

Also, DOMA was, and continues to be, an unprecedented disruption of the separation of powers between state and federal governments. States issue marriage licenses, not the federal government. Throughout history, states have held a patchwork of laws surrounding marriage, such as those pertaining to common law marriage, and the federal government has accepted those differences. It is only now, through DOMA, that Congress claims interest in marriage, discriminates against a group of married people and then backs up the discrimination by saying the states made a mistake by marrying the couples in the first place.

Supporters of DOMA will continue to base their defense of the law on arguments about why it’s a bad idea to let same-sex couples marry.
But that is not the issue before the court. The question that must be argued is whether the federal government is justified in treating same-sex couples, who are committed in marriage in their own states, as single for the purposes of all federal laws and programs.
The answer, we think, is clear.

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        1. …and being bigoted is normal for the bigot. It is a good thing we don’t base our laws on what is “normal” :oP

      1. Slavery was never normal….well I guess it was if you were a rich white democrat from the south in the 1850s

        1. That is back when Dens were conservatives and Republicans were liberal. It was normal enough for cons to try so hard to conserve it.

        1. Yes, and many do. What is your point? On top of that, gay people adopt the children that straight people throw away, why shouldn’t those children be given the same protection?

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  1. As someone who believes very strongly in marriage equality for Gay couples, I need to point out that the federal government has complicated the issue more than anyone. While it is true that the Constitution says nothing about marriage, there are 1,138 legal benefits, protections, and responsibilities (according to the Government Accountability Office) that the federal government automatically bestows on married couples. Much of this has to do with tax law and Social Security. So it simply wouldn’t do for a Gay couple that is legally married in Iowa to suddenly become UN-married if they move someplace else.

    Straight couples have never had to jump through these kinds of hoops. Thanks to the “Full Faith & Credit” clause, if any Straight couple flies off to Las Vegas for a drunken weekend and gets married by an Elvis impersonator, that marriage is automatically honored in all 50 states. Gay couples, however, are held to a different (and hence unconstitutional) legal standard.

    The only way marriage can be a “States Rights” issue is for the federal government to get out of the marriage business completely, and do away with the 1,138 benefits it grants to married couples. Tell me how thrilled most married couples would be with THAT.

    1. I’m all for it buddy….while we’re at it, let’s just get rid of the federal government in its entirety, along with its numerous immoral wealth redistribution rackets such as the income tax, Social Security, medicare, welfare, etc.

  2. A slam dunk case. DOMA will be struck down easily. More of a long shot, but I hope gays get some sort of higher scrutiny beyond rational basis so all those minority targeting state amendments can get struck down as well.

    1. Yes Lincoln, your masterful central government is perfect for lording over the lives of 310+ million souls (slaves)….now get in line and extend your open, empty hand, with the rest of the ‘minorities’

      1. You can’t criticize an overbearing central government and then defend DOMA at the same time. DOMA interferes with states’ rights massively. Do you have so much disdain for gays that you can’t admit that?

        And your empty hand comment is disgusting stupidity. Gays actually make more money and pay more in taxes than straight people do. Why don’t you be thankful to them for picking up your slack? Your hand is emptier and extended out asking for more than them — that’s fact.

        1. “Gays actually make more money and pay more in taxes than straight people do.”

          Show us the facts.

          1. Should I bother with fact-denier like you?

            http://money.cnn.com/2012/12/06/pf/gay-money/index.html?iid=HP_LN

            “Respondents not only reported significantly higher annual incomes — $61,500 compared with the national median of $50,054 — but they also carried about $4,000 less in debt than the average American and had $6,000 more in household savings. They were even slightly more likely to have jobs in the first place, with an unemployment rate of 7% versus the national rate of 7.9%, Prudential found.”

            Thanks to the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), a 1996 law that defines marriage as solely between a man and a woman, same-sex couples are barred from getting many of the same federal benefits that opposite-sex married couples receive, including survivor benefits and certain tax exemptions.

      2. So you agree our federal government is unconstitutionally infringing on states rights with DOMA, and repealing or striking down that legislation is in line with the ideal of small government. Thanks for your support!

  3. The government should be treating everyone equally as individuals, and not giving additional rights and benefits to any group, including those who are married, whether straight or gay.

  4. She got $3.5 million tax-free and at least 55% of the amount beyond that $3.5M. “She was being required to pay for the loss of her soul mate” – what a crock! She paid at a lower rate than tax-cheat Mitt! What’s wrong with you people?

    1. If her spouse had been a man she wouldn’t have been required to pay a single penny. The IRS owes Edith a full refund of the inheritance taxes she paid.

  5. This whole issue is ridiculous! The government should get out of the business of recognizing, defining, or promoting marriage. The concept of “marriage” is essentially a result of religious belief, and should be left to this realm. Government overstepped its bounds by legislating according to one’s marital status, which led us to the divisive state that we are now in!

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