CHICAGO — A small but growing number of teens and even younger children who think they were born the wrong sex are getting support from parents and from doctors who give them sex-changing treatments, according to reports in the medical journal Pediatrics.

It’s an issue that raises ethical questions, and some experts urge caution in treating children with puberty-blocking drugs and hormones.

An 8-year-old second-grader in Los Angeles is a typical patient. Born a girl, the child announced at 18 months, “I a boy” and has stuck with that belief. The family was shocked but now refers to the child as a boy and is watching for the first signs of puberty to begin treatment, his mother told The Associated Press.

Pediatricians need to know these kids exist and deserve treatment, said Dr. Norman Spack, author of one of three reports published Monday and director of one of the nation’s first gender identity medical clinics, at Children’s Hospital Boston.

“If you open the doors, these are the kids who come. They’re out there. They’re in your practices,” Spack said in an interview.

Switching gender roles and occasionally pretending to be the opposite sex is common in young children. But these kids are different. They feel certain they were born with the wrong bodies.

Some are labeled with “gender identity disorder,” a psychiatric diagnosis. But Spack is among doctors who think that’s a misnomer. Emerging research suggests they may have brain differences more similar to the opposite sex.

Spack said by some estimates, 1 in 10,000 children have the condition.

Offering sex-changing treatment to kids younger than 18 raises ethical concerns, and their parents’ motives need to be closely examined, said Dr. Margaret Moon, a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics’ bioethics committee. She was not involved in any of the reports.

Some kids may get a psychiatric diagnosis when they are just hugely uncomfortable with narrowly defined gender roles; or some may be gay and are coerced into treatment by parents more comfortable with a sex change than having a homosexual child, said Moon, who teaches at the Johns Hopkins Berman Institute of Bioethics.

It’s harmful “to have an irreversible treatment too early,” Moon said.

Doctors who provide the treatment say withholding it would be more harmful.

These children sometimes resort to self-mutilation to try to change their anatomy; the other two journal reports note that some face verbal and physical abuse and are prone to stress, depression and suicide attempts. Spack said those problems typically disappear in kids who’ve had treatment and are allowed to live as the opposite sex.

Guidelines from the Endocrine Society endorse transgender hormone treatment but say it should not be given before puberty begins. At that point, the guidelines recommend puberty-blocking drugs until age 16, then lifelong sex-changing hormones with monitoring for potential health risks. Mental health professionals should be involved in the process, the guidelines say. The group’s members are doctors who treat hormonal conditions.

Those guidelines, along with YouTube videos by sex-changing teens and other media attention, have helped raise awareness about treatment and led more families to seek help, Spack said.

His report details a fourfold increase in patients at the Boston hospital. His Gender Management Service clinic, which opened at the hospital in 2007, averages about 19 patients each year, compared with about four per year treated for gender issues at the hospital in the late 1990s.

The report details 97 girls and boys treated between 1998 and 2010; the youngest was 4 years old. Kids that young and their families get psychological counseling and are monitored until the first signs of puberty emerge, usually around age 11 or 12. Then children are given puberty-blocking drugs, in monthly $1,000 injections or implants imbedded in the arm.

In another Pediatrics report, a Texas doctor says he’s also provided sex-changing treatment to an increasing number of children; so has a clinic at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles where the 8-year-old is a patient.

The drugs used by the clinics are approved for delaying puberty in kids who start maturing too soon. The drugs’ effects are reversible and Spack said they’ve caused no complications in his patients. The idea is to give these children time to mature emotionally and make sure they want to proceed with a permanent sex change. Only one of the 97 opted out of permanent treatment, Spack said.

Kids will more easily pass as the opposite gender, and require less drastic treatment later, if drug treatment starts early, Spack said. For example, boys switching to girls will develop breasts and girls transitioning to boys will be flat-chested if puberty is blocked and sex-hormones started soon enough, Spack said.

Sex hormones, especially in high doses when used long-term, can have serious side effects, including blood clots and cancer. Spack said he uses low, safer doses but that patients should be monitored.

Gender-reassignment surgery, which may include removing or creating penises, is only done by a handful of U.S. doctors, on patients aged at least 18, Spack said. His clinic has worked with local surgeons who’ve done breast removal surgery on girls at age 16, but that surgery can be relatively minor, or avoided, if puberty is halted in time, he said.

The mother of the Los Angeles 8-year-old says he’s eager to begin treatment.

When the child was told he could get shots to block breast development, “he was so excited,” the mother said.

He also knows he’ll eventually be taking testosterone shots for life but surgery right now is uncertain.

The child attends a public school where classmates don’t know he is biologically a girl. For that reason, his mother requested anonymity.

She said she explained about having a girl’s anatomy but he rejected that, refused to wear dresses, and has insisted on using a boy’s name since preschool.

The mother first thought it was a phase, then that her child might be a lesbian, and sought a therapist’s help to confirm her suspicion. That’s when she first heard the term “gender identity disorder” and learned it’s often not something kids outgrow.

Accepting his identity has been difficult for both parents, the woman said. Private schools refused to enroll him as a boy, and the family’s pediatrician refused to go along with their request to treat him like a boy. They found a physician who would, Dr. Jo Olson, medical director of a transgender clinic at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles.

Olson said the journal reports should help persuade more doctors to offer these kids sex-changing treatment or refer them to specialists who will.

“It would be so nice to move this out of the world of mental health, and into the medical world,” Olson said.

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      1. You don’t want to be a part of allowing your fellow human beings to live as they were meant to live? That’s pretty revolting …

  1. Voo-Doo medical practices will not fix a mental problem. Our new acceptable culture is proving to much for thousands of kids who now challenge their own identity. Cartoons with a strong Dr Spock bias have given way to full blown acceptance of everything .  In Fact, many parents can no longer understand or accept  “old fashion” discipline and direction training for their children. What served two hundred and fifty million American children well over the decades, and helped make this country great, is now cruel and unusual. The sixties, seventies, and up to now have given our population quite a choice, which shows up on the news every night. History will record the failure of today’s  society to adhere to decent moral and ethical values.

        1. What do you mean if? One of the 97 decided not to go forward without issue. You’re calling it child abuse based on a “what if” and that’s not really fair. The children have an issue, they’re not happy and the parents are address it through therapy and delaying puberty. 

          What about the reverse? What if this kid doesn’t want to wear dresses and have long hair, but the parents force them to anyway. Won’t let them play with the toys they want, read the books they want, etc. What about that? Seems like these parents are taking a pretty measured approach to me, not forcing their children to do things that clearly make them unhappy.

          1. hogwash and baloney

            There’s nothing to argue about here. Some of us can see the obvious too well for that.

          2.  I think you  should be the last one to bring up mental capabilities considering your postings on this “issue”.

          3. That was obvious to me when I saw his first reply to my post. I don’t trust anybody who would advocate for this type of child abuse. When people start thinking of children as “little adults” it can lead to all sorts of bad things. We only need to take a good look around us to see what it leads to.

          4. Think about it logically. 
            We spend billions of dollars per year to breed the best dogs, horses, cats, even mice, and keep the breeds strong. Yet, with the human animal, we promote the most defective genes and behavior in the species. What did anyone think was going to happen after decades of this?

          5. Dont worry be happy…clone wars are coming if man makes it that long. because we are just a blip in time…nothing more.

          6.  One of humankinds’ greatest characterisitcs has always been our flaws and weaknesses. Without them we would not have had an Einstein, nor an Abraham Lincoln. Do not mistake logic for truth.

          7. So you’re advocating eugenics? Have the government round up and sterilize anyone who exhibits “defective” behavior? It’s a shame you weren’t alive in 1930’s Germany, you’d have made a great Nazi.

          8. Sorry,nice talking point though, it was Margaret Sanger who was the Eugenicists. You remember her, she went on  to found Planned Parenthood  to implement her agenda.
             “The most merciful thing that a large family does
            to one of its infant members is to kill it.” Margaret Sanger,
            Women and the New Race (Eugenics Publ. Co., 1920, 1923)

          9.  I have a real response,and it is that you are as troubled as these  kids. In fact you are more so in that  you and those like you are why we are seeing  this  more and more.
             The idea that a 4 year old can have a gender identity crisis is foolishness, allowed to  be nourished in a troubled environment is reckless, at best, and  is very close to Child abuse. 
            “Seems like these parents are taking a pretty measured approach to me,
            not forcing their children to do things that clearly make them unhappy.”  Is a pathetic statement to make and a sadder  commentary on our society. I wonder if we  eliminated  the pop culture these kids are bombarded by , would we see this happening? The Parents are taking a measured approach? By pumping them  full of drugs to further stunt their development fostering,enabling  a behavioral/emotional imbalance?
            The drugs “may be reversible” , but the damage done in those years will last a life time. The Parents ,and other adults in these children’s lives ,who allow this behavior in a 4,5 or 7 year old are it’s cause.They have created the environment where it is acceptable,and are guilty of abuse.
            The fact that you keep using phrases like ” not really fair” “they have an issue” ” they’re not happy” ” not forcing their children to do things that clearly make them unhappy” , says it all.
             These people call themselves parents, they should act like it  and say no once in awhile.

          10. I believe that gender identity issues do happen to people. I think that in the case of very young children that may not want to play with dolls although they are a girl then the thing to do is to remain calm and not force anything. My daughter didnt play with dolls at all until she got to be around three. Today she is so much a girly girl it makes me a little sick to my stomach at times. I think parents are making these types of things more about them then the child. The parents are saying¨¨my son doesnt likes to bake cookies instead of be outside riding his bike so he must be gay or perhaps he is a girl in a boys body¨¨. To me that is not correct. I think up to a certain age nature has to take its course. Now if a child that is in puberty and in thier teenage years believes they might have gender problems then I can be a little bit more accepting that it might be an issue. For a little girl who can barely talk to say I am  a boy and then  have the parents want to give the child drugs and take them to gender counselors is a bit over the top with me.

            I guess I am in the middle on this issue. I think it happens with some people. I also think that in some cases the issue is being created by parents.

          11. That’s an ignorant response though and not based in reality. Moving aside from this specific issue and thinking in general terms, just saying no is the cure-all? A kid has behavior problems at school, telling them not to misbehave solves the issue? A kid is perpetually sad, telling them to be happy solves it?

            You aren’t being realistic. 

          12. When a child is outspoken at school, you don’t remove their tongue to make them behave and stop talking during class. If a child has a serious issue they need therapy – not body altering drugs. At 8 years of age, most kids are pretty much asexual: they haven’t even had the chance to feel what is like to be a man or woman – how could they ‘know’ that they don’t want it. If they want to do it when they are adults, that’s one thing – personally I believe it’s just putting a band-aid on a much larger issue, but they are adults…children should not be put in the situation to have that choice.

          13. Nobody is doing anything comparable to removing a person’s tongue. The kids are being put on therapy and then possibly having puberty delayed. If this is bad, then you also have to say that the kids in therapy and medications for ADHD are essentially having their tongues removed too. 

          14. You kind of follow my thoughts on the issue. Parents should not be forcing boys to play GI JOE do to the fact that if the boy doesnt play he has something wrong with him. Young Girls should not be forced to play with dolls if they prefer to be outside getting muddy and dirty.

            However should parents say- my daughter doesnt want to play with dolls so she must think she is a boy or perhaps she is a lesbian- I think we might agree that is not a good approach either.

          15. Hello a 18 month old child decides what their sex is…….Hello anyone home…….hello any parents home….just doctor shop till you get someone to agree with you…..If you believe there is no parental involvement in a “CHILD” of that age deciding that issue then you need help. Our society is dying.

          16.  I agree some 18 month olds can’t even talk yet at that age they don’t know anything! lol they’re babies

  2. I think the misleading and sensationalist headlines with this are pretty disgusting. It’s all done to draw outrage and get people clicking, but it’s wrong. These are actual people — you don’t need to skew the issue. The treatments here are therapy and delaying puberty in order to sort things out. 8 year olds aren’t going under the knife or anything. 

    These are children that have an issue and the parents are dealing with it. What else do you want them to do about it? 

    1. It seems that young children that have issues are being forced to make decisions that they are not emotionally prepared for. Perhaps the parents need to stop taking thier kids to therapists to find out if the are homosexual and let nature take its course. I know gender issues are real and I want to be compassionate. Im just thinking that maybe puberty should actually be reached and then a more mature adolescent(and not a child or that childs parents) can make very important decisions like this on thier own.

    2.  “What else do you want them to do about it? .Maybe act like a parent and shut the Life Time channel off and tell their kids no once in a while.

    3.  How can one possibly be “born with the wrong body?” It isn’t possible. Chemically delaying puberty to sort things out? That is abusive and nelectful parenting in the extreme. It should be strictly illegal.

      1. Completely wrong. It’s the exact opposite of abusive parenting. These children have a legitimate and serious medical condition, and fortunately their parents are competent and compassionate enough to do what needs to be done for their kids to live healthy lives.

        1. The physical evidence suggests otherwise. Please describe to me one instance in which the victim of the medical horror that is sex alteration was psychologically healthy, and felt fulfilled spiritually as well. Who decides legitimacy anyway? I can state that just about anything is “legitimate” nowadays and few will stop to think about whehter or not it’s true. Sad state of affairs when not enough people stand for the truth, especially when it is so obvious as it is in this debate.

          1. “Please describe to me one instance in which the victim of the medical horror that is sex alteration was psychologically healthy, and felt fulfilled spiritually as well.”
            I’ve heard many, many stories of people undergoing sex change procedures, and each and every single one of them was far more psychologically healthy and spiritually fulfilled after undergoing the procedure. Your fear of transgenderism reveals your ignorance.

          2.  Hearsay. What exactly am I ignorant of? Is it the mainstream opinion on the legitimacy of transgenderism? Or, am I ignorant as to how you so adroitly sussed out my fear of transgenderism? In any case, 18 months is a bit young to be judging your kid as being self-aware enough to determine their own sex. If there ever is any doubt, just look down.

      2. Not only is it possible, it actually happens all the time. It would be irresponsible not to help these children transition to the proper gender.

        The fact that you consider this to be weird and harmful is extremely disturbing. These children can’t help the way the are, and they’re certainly under no obligation to try to conform to your uninformed ideas of what’s “OK” and “not OK.”

  3. I want to be compassionate. And yet while I understand that gender issues are real I also think that it is kind of sad that young children are being caught up in this.

    As a six year old I played ¨kitchen¨¨ and ¨¨tea party¨¨ with my sister. By the age of 8 I was in love with GI Joe and Football. What if my parents had gotten the idea that I was acting too feminine and thus might have a gender issue?

    My daughter as a baby and up to three had nothing to do with dolls. She played with pots and pans, empty cereal boxes and loved kitchen spoons and her stuffed lobster toy. Now at age 13 she is   so girly girl it makes me laugh.  What if her mother and I thought that she was acting like a boy and thought she had gender issues?

    Does taking a young girl to a therapist becuase you might think she is a lesbian even though she has no idea what sex is doesnt seem right to me.

    A very hard issue indeed.

  4. Of course, the mental problem that we’re talking about involves people who cannot accept others for who they are.  Like the phoney ‘Christians” who base their beliefs on a nasty, petty, vengeful God; the opinionated but undereducated tough guys who focus their anger on their poor, undereducated neighbors, and those half-wits from high school who never made it. Those are the people who spend their time worrying about other people’s gender identity.

      1. I think it was you who assumed he was just talking about the good people of Maine. I find no mention of Maine in Bangorian’s comment, only in yours. I think you can find bigoted, hatefilled, cultists calling themselves “christians” most anywhere, not just Maine.

        1.  Most of his/her/it’s previous posts seem to denigrate the majority of the good people of our state in some way or another.

           Parr for the course.

      2. Did you notice this ?  ” people who cannot accept others for who they are” followed by  ” phoney Christians”  and ” nasty,petty,vengeful God” and ” opinionated….undereducated…half wits from high school….” need I say more ?

        1. Well……..yes, you do need to say more.

          Are you and Bangorian of the same mindset, or am I misreading your post?

  5. I don’t necessarily agree with any of the viewpoints in the article. I do not want a sex change, nor do I have children who believe they need a sex change. However, we need to stop stigmatizing and criticizing those who do. It’s the twisted artificial values that we as a synthesized society have decided to uphold that marginalizes the individuals mentioned in this article. The sex change of another does not necessarily affect us. If we were to, as individuals, change our views towards masculinity and femininity perhaps our society would feel a lesser need to bash individuals who do not fit into invented gender stereotypes. But, “a boy is a boy” and “a girl is a girl”? Not so. This is simply not true. As a male, it is not hard-coded into my DNA to like sports and cars, nor in a female for her to like fashion, cooking, etc. The Sex of an individual is defined by genitalia, Gender on the other hand is described by artificial societal roles. People wouldn’t be born “the wrong gender” if we didn’t uphold and impose strict societal norms.

  6. What an awful dilemma to have to face for  a child and the  parent. I do think a 4 yr old is incapable of knowing what a gender issue is,  and therefore what gender he or she is. A lot of things kids do can be misinterpreted.

  7. I am sorry but how does an 18 month old know what a boy or girl even is to decide they’re a boy? maybe the girl just doesn’t like wearing dresses lol

  8. Perhaps the older generation should not have listened to Dr. Timothy Leary when he said that there are no long term detrimental effects to the use of LSD !

  9. This is it… we as a society here in the united states have gotten or at least allowed our core values to be twisted and turned to the point it’s not even there anymore…. What next… dad i want to marry spot the terrier.. or dad i want to be a duck…sounds far fetched huh?…..or hey johnnie even though your 18 months old… who killed yer neighbor…can you point to him/her?…ah we got him now..arrest that man….far fetched?…call me old fashioned…call me too old to understand…but just gettin so… dont call me.

  10. The very notion that there are people who take this ridiculousness seriously is just further proof that we, as a whole, are inching even closer to society in the film, ‘Idiocracy’.

    1. Your comment couldn’t be more inaccurate. The fact that we are now realize the necessity of gender reassignment in some cases means that we are more intelligent and less ignorant and idiotic than before.

      Also, in “Idiocracy,” wasn’t it capitalist commercialism and the glorification of ignorance (i.e. what you’re doing right now) that made everyone stupid?

  11. Maybe they weren’t born with the wrong body, maybe they were born with the wrong mind! Easier to change I bet!!

      1. What am I to think? Nature is nature. A Buck does not become a Doe…

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