STETSON – Alma M. Gray, 82, went to be with her Lord on Aug. 5, 2004, at a Bangor hospital. She was born Sept. 2, 1921, in Rochester, N.H., the daughter of Dana W. Meader and Annie E. (Marshall) Meader. She was predeceased by her husband, Edgar N. Gray. She is survived by her children, Jonathan W. Wright-Gray and his wife, Nancy, of Sterling, Mass., Peter N. Gray and his wife, Judy, of Falmouth, Faith E. Gray of Maple Valley, Wash., Susan J. Roberts and her husband, James, of Miami, Fla., Timothy E. Gray of Newport, Rebecca R. Victor and her husband, Anthony, of Fairfield, Ill., Beth E. Gray of Chichester, N.H., Daniel R. Gray and his wife, Joan, of Caycee, S.C., Deborah A. Cawley and her husband, Blair, of Stetson; many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday, Aug. 10, at the Stetson Meetinghouse, with the Rev. David Ray Sr. officiating.