PORTLAND, Maine — A Missouri man has been charged in U.S. District Court with interstate stalking.

Benjamin Lee, 52, threatened to kill his estranged wife and “mount her head on the wall,” according to an FBI affidavit.

He made his first appearance Wednesday in federal court in Portland.

U.S. Magistrate Judge John H. Rich III ordered that Lee be held without bail until a detention hearing can be held Monday.

Lee originally was arrested in September and charged in state court with domestic violence stalking and having a loaded firearm in a vehicle after his wife reported that he was driving by the house where she was staying in southern Maine. She told a dispatcher that she thought her husband had a gun, the affidavit said.

A short time later, Lee was stopped by Maine State Police and a York County sheriff’s deputy, according to the affidavit. Lee allowed them to search his trunk and they found “five firearms (and over 200 rounds of assorted ammunition matching the caliber of the firearms), a machete, a bayonet, a folding knife, handcuffs, duct tape, packing tape, rubber gloves, camouflage face paint, a map of Maine with [a Maine town] circled in pen, a roll of plastic trash bags and a roll of plastic sheeting.”

During a subsequent search of Lee’s car, police found a digital camera with a photo of the residence where his wife was staying saved on it, an empty 10-gallon cooler and a sleeping bag, according to the affidavit.

The investigation showed that in May Lee’s estranged wife told him to leave her alone and that she was not coming back to him. While not all of Lee’s emails to her included threats, some did, the affidavit said. The emails quoted in the court document included obscenities, typographical errors and incorrect use of punctuation.

“LIKE YOU SAID THE KIDS DONT NEED US ANY MORE AND [obscenity] IT YOU LEFT[,] SO CAN I[,] YOU REALLY WANT TO SEE WHAT YOU PUSHED ME TO STICK AROUND YOU WILL FEEL THIS I PROMISE,” one quoted in the affidavit said. Another said: “i have no scedule i can wait for ever and if i decide i needd to come out there i will see things through.”

The state charge was dismissed Wednesday, according to Assistant U.S. Attorney Darcie McElwee. Lee had been held without bail at the York County Jail in Alfred since his arrest in September. As of Wednesday morning, he is in federal custody, the federal prosecutor said.

If convicted Lee faces up to five years in prison and a fine of up to $250,000.

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      1. This woman needs to move asap. Relying on 24 hour a day police protection isn’t an option, so she should find a way to relocate fast. Isn’t there a network of “underground” places for women in her situation?

    1. So sad to see this traveler struggling and crying out for help.
      I hope he may find some comfort , somewhere.

      1. OMG are you kidding? That kind of thinking is what sends people like him back out to finish the job…just like the dad from Dexter….wow

  1. Fed’s BOP has that new prison in NH just waiting for someone to christen the front gate. Looks like Maine’s gonna be the one to do it. And it couldn’t happen to a nicer jerk !

  2. Guns don’t kill people, people with guns kill people. This junk should be regulated. Sorry NRA-heads, but some of you are nuts and the rest of us have a vested interest in staying alive

  3. This is way more than lovesick, folks! I’m glad that he was caught and is now under the Fed’s control. Anybody that’s ever been stalked knows the 24/7 fear and he sounds more determined than usual…

  4. OMG sounds like a story from Law & Order SVU……….scary. Thank God she reported him and thanks the police for doing their jobs!

  5. five firearms (and over 200 rounds of assorted ammunition matching the
    caliber of the firearms), a machete, a bayonet, a folding knife,
    handcuffs, duct tape, packing tape, rubber gloves, camouflage face
    paint, a map of Maine with [a Maine town] circled in pen, a roll of
    plastic trash bags and a roll of plastic sheeting.”

    And a Partridge in a Pear Tree.

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